If you know that ur daughter's no longer a virgin

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by kawaiigirl, Jul 8, 2009.

  1. kawaiigirl

    kawaiigirl Well-Known Member

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    You have a daughter, at what age do you accept that she is no longer a virgin ? Why ? And do you came from a traditional, strict, open mind family ?

     
  2. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    I will disown my daughter if she's a lesbo or slut. That's why I won't allow my kid to school alone; need to be driven to and from school so that they can't hang out with trash .. a lot of school "ho" and "assholes" going around recruiting new members.
     
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    ^holy shit lol sucks having you as a father hahaha...DISOWN
     
  4. lol i understand the slut part, and i wouldn't want to have a lesbo daughter, but you say it as if they are equal in badness lol
     
  5. vangirl86

    vangirl86 Well-Known Member

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    LOL, agree.

    With the generation today, I can only imagine that it'll get worse. People are losing their virginity as young as 13. I think the average was 16.
     
  6. saw recently stats japan somewhere high schoolers %60 are non virgins
     
  7. kawaiigirl

    kawaiigirl Well-Known Member

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    I hear from a friend that a lot of japanese girls ( no offence, just what i heard ) become prost-censoreditute at a young age. I can't confirmed if that's a reality ... Need to do some more research.
     
  8. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    even younger than 13 ...
     
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    perhaps you should get your daughters a chastity belt hahahahha
     
  10. [mJ9]

    [mJ9] Well-Known Member

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    i kinda agree with him with the disown part but... driving the kid to and from the school,it's okay when you're a kid but not when you're an adolescent..
     
  11. iris

    iris Well-Known Member

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    As long as they know how to play safe and not ACTIVE active it's not such a big deal.

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    Also negiq, you can "protect" your daughter as much as you want.. thinking that driving her to and from school will shield her from all the bad influences.. but fact is she will still get exposed to that kind of environment..

    if you don't believe me.. there's a girl I know who is going through what you plan to do with your daughter. She's 24 and her mom STILL drives her to and from school.. she had a curfew at 8:00pm everyday (LOL!!!!!!!!!) until recently and she was always suppose to let her mom meet her friends before she got to go hang out with them. In front of her mom, she's a total angel.. but outside she's a total whore.

    As long as they're not doing anything extreme, I think you should just accept them for who they are or who they will be or they'll just rebel against you.
     
  12. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    I'm leaning more liberal than conservative, but when it comes to sex, i'll prefer her to lose her virginity on wedding day............it's to protect her from AIDS, STDs...........the safest thing to do is ABSTINENCE.

    my parents never discuss anything relates to sex. so i learn those things from the sexual section of a Chinese newspaper back in the days............then porn & the gr8test health classes out of my HS years. I'll def. advice my daughter in the future the proper way of sex education.
     
  13. bbgirlsum

    bbgirlsum Well-Known Member

    if my daughter was like 15 or 16 or over i wouldn't have minded so long as i know she had used condoms to protect her from any STDs and STIs
    it's their decision not mine and if they have lost their virginity, then it's their own lesson
     
  14. kawaiigirl

    kawaiigirl Well-Known Member

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    I agree with you. And anyway, even if you disown your daughter, she's still your daughter.
    The role that Alex Fong is playing in The great way to care, when his daughter was pregnant. I like his reaction, because i know a lot of parents won't act as he does.
    Everyone has their opinions, depending on how you were raised ... I mean your social life .. school .. education. All this has an impact on this subject.
     
  15. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Lol negiq... thats kinda extreme ok... i mean... if shes a lesbo shes a lesbo.... what u gonna gain by disowning her.... a slut is different i guess...if ud pick ur teenage daughter EVERY single day.... that shit could backfire.... n shed just slp around to piss u off lol... strict is good, very good these days actually but there is a limit... kids should have SOME space too u know....

    but yeah, if u know ur daughter lost her virginity..u cant really "undo" it.... what CAN u do? the only could do is give em some sex education, tell em what consequences of sex are n try n get through to them what not to do.... but nothing u could really do to stop em....
     
  16. one of the many reasons why i prefer to have boys
     
  17. bbgirlsum

    bbgirlsum Well-Known Member

    boys are the same just that they don't get as emotionally attached for their first times...
    also boys can be as bad when it comes to sleeping around coz all they do is get the erection and just stick it in :/
     
  18. casshern

    casshern Well-Known Member

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    One of the many reasons why I'm glad to be a guy. :D
     
  19. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    did u watch A Great Way to Care? I rmb the quote from there:

    Maybe girls should start to have dicks now to protect themselves ROFL!
     
  20. bbgirlsum

    bbgirlsum Well-Known Member

    why? to avoid the painful experience of becoming pregnant and to pain of giving birth? TUT