The guy has a great background though .. my sis is too young. AND I don't hate the guy, no reason to .. I simply told the sis my opinion and up to her to deal with it. I only step in when things are not going right.
i think your intention was good, however just a bit extreme in the way you approached the matter...have you considered just talking about it with her?
No .. I don't think it was important to discuss things like that with her. I was simply looking out for her at the time ..like you said, good intention. She was young but in college and probably doesn't know about the guy's history too; not to mention there are things you don't tell your siblings when it comes to relationship. So yeah, I kinda went my own way. Getting the basic info from a PI is so much easier and faster than getting through my sis.
man i understand though as an older brother im pretty protective of my muimui. but i guess when the time comes...
[STU="49752"]lol so do you understand why Matthew (and possibly me too, if I am not too disgusted by your hamsupness!!) would chop your balls off if you even try to get at Brittany? lol and don't worry. only me, you, and the mods can see this hahaha.[/STU] Anyway, I don't think you went too far. You are just doing this for her own good. It's not like you don't trust her.. you just don't trust the guy.
I think it ended well. They're broken up and she's not mad at you. Should've punched him in the face and asked him why a 21yo is dating ur 16yo sis. It's creepy. Don't know about the PI thing. You meant well so w/e and she is 16.
