man you sound like you would be an awesome gf since you are so willing to change to be with the one you love. so you can DEFINITELY find someone A LOT better
^ i can't agree with that ... this gal may sound like a nice person but her action and judgment .. hmm .. appear more like the clingy type .. lol .. not sure anyone wanna date such type.
^im sure there are guys who like the clingy type lol.... gives em an ego boost... especially DAAI LARM YUNS.....
wow,you still dated him for 4 years after he cheated on you..it's great you decided to leave him,MOST people never change
Well I'm glad you chose to stay away from him. What a ick... I'm sorry but once a cheat, always a cheat. I should respect yourself more and step higher than scums like that. x
You've really answered your own question with this thread since you don't say why you actually stayed with him. My verdict: LEAVE He does not seem to have changed. BUT... if he has, then being together for 4 years, there's still something there... maybe. In the end, there are indeed other people out there that would be right for you. Enjoy life. Don't stress from it.
well here are the keys: doubt trust willingness emotional time distance now, you doubt him because he cheated, dw i am pretty sure it is common to do so. trust, well obviously, from my opinion i don't think you will trust him completely. So things won't be the same anymore in terms of trust ey? emotional, you fail to do that for him. time, you spent so much time that i think you should give it one last go distance about him the other half, well i would think a distance relation would not work out unlesss he is dam commited. finally, i think your relation is comming to an end or if you do stick with it, you are going to have a rough ride lol.
just dump that shit. be a human, let it go. if he can do one time, he can do it second time. be strong and make a end of this crap relation.
i used to be the type to say: "i cant forget about her and stuff" , "its too hard", "bla bla bla" but in fact its easy, it just takes time, the question is how long ? (took me 4 years tho) go out, go to school, go to ur job, follow your own road, believe that someday u will meet the right one, have good realation with ur family, have lots of friends, do something u like, find a goal in life and then time will erase everything, not 100% erased but 90% at least after all this, remember those time and u will think u were really stupid and laught but dont get depressed, u never waste time in life, in fact u have plenty of time, that relation that ended gave u more experience, made u know what u really want, so thx him for that, you will eventually find something worth living for and u will say i dont regret taking that path (that is for having left him) there is no secret to move on, do what u have to, if u want the hard way: just stop talking to him , delete the pictures (it always bring back memories and make u sad) having sex with another girl just after breaking up, u can see how much he wanted to do it and now he wants to come back after this ? seriously, he is a loser dont be the weak type of girl ! trust in a relationship is important, if u dont have it, u will always be sad and cry it sounds easy, but when u start to do it it feels hard to accomplished but after some time u will say u were right burpyierz
I admirer your decision to work things out and gave him a 2nd chance but it seem like he's taking that 2nd opportunity and stepped all over it. He's putting the blame/guilt on to you when it's him who's taking you for granted. I know 4 yrs is a long time and it's hard to let go and scary but it's better now than later. Staying in this relationship for another 4 yrs and find out that he's still the same cheating jerk/self-centered pig will be a lot more painful.
