Do girls think shy guys are boring and useless? I lean more on the shy side, like i rarely initiate a conversation, and I blush really easily too...cause I'm always self conscious of everything I do
No one likes extremes of any character trait. You can't be excessively shy, but you can't be extremely aggressive either. Most girls prefer guys who are calm and laid back, but confident and initiative at the same time. And any girl who says she prefers shy guys is either shy herself, or a pre-teen.
well the thing is you could be shy but as you warm up to the person hopefully you are more talkative and willing to initiate a conversation otherwise the girl will think you are boring and useless
i think guys are cute when they're shy but if they stay shy then i'm like pfft whatever i wouldn't mind taking the initiative with a guy sometimes but if i am always the one doing it then i'm not going to keep trying
well most people are shy when you meet them for the first time..i think.....shy guys are kinda cute but if they stay shy even after you've known them for a while it annoys me-madsign1GRRR...
There's always the right person for everyone out there... but if you don't initiate convo, how will you get to know the other person? =)
Shy guys are annoying especially if he does not express his feelings/thoughts for a girl that he likes for years. Of course, guys should know when to be shy and when to be "moderate" agressive. Guys who are too up front tends to indirectly make the girl feel as if he is like that to all girls.
I think the twilight series made your predicament much easier to deal with... if you're into HS girls XD
Dude you're placing the pewn way up on a pedestal. Girls are people just like you and me 3 weeks outta the month.
I think guys that are shy are cute... [if i first meet them] but if they're TOO shy, I'll think they're little bitches. lol! At the same time, they gotta have confident as well, but can't be cocky. They just need to know what to do I guess.
for me if a shy girl + shy guy it will = a lot of awkwardness/ silence give in some courage and take some initiative or else... its going no where
If he is not TOO shy, that will be ok!! Since a bit shy makes ppl want to know more about him. So, will start the conversation 1st in order to know more about him. But.... he needs to talk back if some1 talks with him, cannot keep silence at that time!
shy guys are weak and fail with woman severely in reality. i am pretty sure woman do not prefer shy guys because they would seem to be inconfident, weak emotionally and physically. just compare the social going out people with the indoor anti social people.
i actually think shy guys are really really cute...the way they are totaly scare of taklin to the girl or lik sweats in their hands and stutters when they speak its lik so adorable makes me wanna do the talkin and let them calm abit down first hehe
