I don't get the argument here at all -_- 1) It wasn't a big deal at all 2) The sister was humiliated 3) I doubt that snatching the camera from her brother at the time was appropriate 4) I don't see any reason why the sister should/shouldn't do it again... it's really up to her
Yes, it was disrespectful and mean of the brother to post this video up and absolutely humiliating his sister. But come on, if she was willing to meet up with a guy from Myspace, without thinking about the consequences or the danger of it, she must not have much respect for herself.
oh no doubt tho, her brother is an absolute loser but that doesn't make this less funny for us cruel people hahaha... in the butttttt
rofl, if I had a sister like that, I wouldn't want anyone to know we're related. That guy is retarded for posting the video. White people don't know how to raise children.
As far as im concerned the brother did not humiliate the sister, she humiliated herself and showed complete disrespect to her mother, this time it was recorded. how did he stab her in the back? did they have some sort of pact or understanding beforehand? I think the issue is with the parents, a son who can say what he said and a daughter who can swear at her mother were simply not raised right, ignoring the daughter and the mother and blaming the brother for his antics is wrong imo but your opinion is your opinion. if the brother wasn't there then basically the girl would have ended up shouting and swearing at the mother with no repercussion as im sure happens on a regular basis in that household. maybe if the girl 'acted right' then there wouldn't have been anything to record. yeah but that girl was not willing to listen to anyone anyway, she is 18 now, she knows it all etc etc. thats one messup up family
The fact that he is her brother implies a certain amount of solidarity. You don't need to contractually spell it out beforehand, that is, "...not to publicly humiliate a sibling" By doing so, you're already violating an implicit familial trust. That is, he stabbed her in the back. I agree that she did humiliate herself, but her brother did so too by pouring salt on the wound with his posting. I also agree that the parent here bears much of the blame in that she's letting her kids run the house. Let's put it this way, everyone in the video has varying degrees of "wrong" associated with their behavior. Together, the familial dynamics (ie. lack of respect, abrasive interpersonal relations, angry communications, abrogation of authority, etc) in that household is clearly abysmal. -roflyawn:rl: :stickpoke:
The amount of solidarity is debatable and can vary from one family to another. The family dynamics may be messed up but I'm sure you don't have a complete understand of their family dynamics to assume siblings would not publicly humiliate another sibling.
Well, let me put it this way; you certainly don't expect a sibling to do that to another in a normal family. There are certain lines that you don't cross with family under normal circumstances; that is, the degree of emotional transgression or confrontation in a family with normal healthy dynamics. However, families that are dysfunctional generally don't see or even know that there should be lines. They have little or no sense of empathy, so are much more prone to injure one another, often without even realizing that they are doing it. You're right that I don't have a complete understanding of that particular family; but I don't need to have a complete understanding of their dynamics to see that they're in trouble and have problems. The evidence is the fact that the video was even posted in the first place; that alone bespeaks volumes.
Yep true... n she should get punishment n i dun think its wrong her mum is grounding her...but honestly i dont think it'll help anymore... shes too old to get whipped lol...its not gonna help
Maybe that's another reason to post the video up on youtube. Think she'd do it again if she was humiliated this badly? Of course, maybe the brother didn't think of this and just thought it would be funny, and of course it is... but hey, it could also be another way of teaching her a lesson.
