Asking out a girl for the 2nd time

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by thomas, Jul 8, 2009.

  1. casshern

    casshern Well-Known Member

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    You exhibit what they call oneitis. It's a trait generally demonstrated by people with low self-esteem. They believe that they don't have options, that nobody else will find them attractive.

    Don't ever put yourself in this position again. No girl is too special or irreplacable. The feelings you have are just a sum of experiences you've shared with her. They can be found somewhere else.
     
  2. Flames

    Flames Out of Date User

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    Yeah! Like food!
     
  3. thomas

    thomas Well-Known Member

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    What if I like a challenge?
     
  4. casshern

    casshern Well-Known Member

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    lol, this isn't a challenge. Chasing the same hopeless girl is the safe route. Just because it's impossible doesn't mean it's a challenge, not when this shit is comfortable to you.

    You've wrapped your sense of self in this one girl that doesn't even want you. A challenge is having the balls to drop her from your life and moving on to a better target.

    No one is a challenge unless YOU make them one.
     
  5. iiimj4everiii

    iiimj4everiii Well-Known Member

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    these fcking girls are way too complicated. fcking doesnt have the same feeling as before. i think they felt this way because they forgot all the good times u guys spent together where the bonding chemicals in the body were shared, and remember all the bad ones. so in her memory, there's barely anything good.
     
  6. person

    person Well-Known Member

    If you broke up once, and you get back together, you'll probably break up again.
     
  7. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    Oh no.... you could be gay...
    She is gonna be your last hope =(

    But seriously... you will find someone else that you'll be interested, I think the only reason why you are interested in her b/c you believe that she is interested in you...