How do you guys answer this

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by jm3, Jul 27, 2009.

  1. jm3

    jm3 Well-Known Member

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    If a girl you're interested in asks you, "What do you look for in a girl?" how would you guys go about answering it?

    Telling the truth i.e. smart, sweet, funny yada yada yada doesn't seem to impress the girl very much.

    What's something you could say that's witty, funny, and answers the question all at the same time?
     
  2. jdm_s2k

    jdm_s2k Well-Known Member

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    whatever your lookin for in a guy...
     
  3. casshern

    casshern Well-Known Member

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    I'd probably say something like...

    "I don't know, what do you have going for you?"
    or
    "I'm flexible, do you have a resume?"
    or
    "Well, I like to keep a healthy variety."

    With a cheeky grin, of course...
     
  4. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    a mix of truths & lies, everyone likes to be flattered, honestly
     
  5. EvilTofu

    EvilTofu 吃|✿|0(。◕‿◕。)0|✿|吃

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    I don't know, but I'll like to find out more about you.

    I don't know, but I see something about you that I find very attractive.

    I like someone who's attractive and cute like you and I'll like see your intern beauty as well.
     
  6. casshern

    casshern Well-Known Member

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    These lines sound like you're either desperate or trying too hard, which would only work on girls with low self-esteem, or the not-so-attractive ones that don't get compliments very often. Even then, these lines might not work.

    For the better looking girls (or the ones with higher standards), you don't want to flatter them too early in the game because hot girls get compliments ALL the time from A LOT of guys. You wanna make yourself stand out by giving her the impression that she's not all that.
     
  7. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    wow .. you must've broken a lot gals' hearts .. lol

    how about just be direct about thing .. "i am looking at it so you wanna go out on a date sometimes? ..." i hated when "GUYS" who doesn't know what to do .. how hard it is to simply the damn question. if she says no then just move on .. such a wuss ..
     
  8. "depends the type of person you are"
     
  9. EvilTofu

    EvilTofu 吃|✿|0(。◕‿◕。)0|✿|吃

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    damn, aren't you taken it way too seriously, those lines are just for fun, maybe just to break the ice. Don't be so dam shallow too. Best way is to be up front. :spank:
     
  10. casshern

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    LOL... and they wonder why nice guys always finish last.

    How am I taking it too seriously?

    It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that girls (or people, in general) always like what they can't get. If you hand yourself over to them too quickly by saying things like "I like someone who's attractive and cute like you and I'll like see your intern beauty as well", they'll either think:

    A) You're desperate or
    B) You say that to every girl you date (aka you're a bullsh1tter)

    Both of which will make you look like a loser and yield negative results.
     
  11. Flames

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    Guess

    Don't worry tofu we know you're only joking -lol
     
  12. lollish

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    I like that one. Usually, when a girl asks you something like this, she's trying to qualify you, testing to see what type of person you are based on your response.

    When you reply with something like the above, you basically re-framed her question to qualify HER. Smart move. :tongue2:

    If you answer her question honestly and list all the things you look for in a girl, you'll just seem like a boring guy.
     
  13. Flames

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    then what is the right answer there loli?
     
  14. lollish

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    I quoted it! lol I like Casshern's responses. Indirect and funny. Answers like those will keep a girl on her toes and spark interest. If you don't answer her question directly, you're maintaining this air of mystery, and a lot of girls like that. At least the girls that I know haha
     
  15. Flames

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    so keep it kinky :whip: got ya
     
  16. iiimj4everiii

    iiimj4everiii Well-Known Member

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    ill just say u look fine. then i go home alone that night.
     
  17. kontradictions

    kontradictions Well-Known Member

    1 word: "Me".
     
  18. casshern

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    As in your penis? If so, good response.
     
  19. Espresso

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    The main thing is for a girl to be compassionate and have feelings, and pure in her toughts. If she doesn't abide to any standard, or moral, or creed; I would not even bother.

    But, I think having her understand you when you don't even speak is what I look for, because it's heart to heart and feelings, not objective and subjective talking.
     
  20. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    "I'll let you know by tonight" (and make sure if have the biggest grin on your face)

    *If it doesn't work, don't blame me