meh.. i thinjk friends should date friends, you never know.. just liek the example from FRIENDS lol... Monica and Chandler gets together but Joey and Rachel doesn't... btu still are friends it just depends how much you want to make an effort to stay together and if you 2 break up, it depends ho much you 2 want to be friends.... so yeah i agree with friends dating friends, screw what your friends think, it's up to you 2. You don't want to miss a chance and you only bloody live once
^ if you want to be friends for the rest of your lives, then there shouldn't be anything stopping you to date this girl Yes it may turn out awkward but you never know, it may progress well, and even say if it doesn't work it and the fact it won't end up like those argument based break ups, the mutual agreement on breaking up willl keep you two as friends GO ON BREAK A LEG
^ my bad if i thought wrong.. hobogloves reminds me of a boy? im sowwie but still go for the boy friend that you like and im sure if he is mature enough, he will stay friends with you till the end
In my opinion if you really want to theres no stopping you from staying friends even after all that happens. Its always possible, just the matter of how much you guys are willing to. And if the reason you two break up is really fucked up enough for you two not be able to stay friends then maybe you two just shouldn't be friends. If he did something really bad to you he isn't worth you trying to even be friends with. If you do something really bad to him then you probably don't deserve his forgiveness and stay friends with him. lol Basically, what I'm trying to say is... yes, friends can date friends and stay friends. If they can not then maybe the person isn't a good person in the first place. The relationship will just show you what type of person they really are.
what if he's the right one? of course there is a consequence but what if you missed it and you regret about it? Do it.. whatever the consequence, at least you will not regret it in the future.. how you sure if you don't start this relationship, the friendship is not broken? What if for him, in order for him to forget you, he will avoid you? what if? Everything in a relationship come with 'what if' and it is all about taking chances.. Besides, I think we should just all marry our best opposite sex friends.. Who knows you well enough other than them and yourself? They are the people who you showed your true colour to and have accepted you for who you are..if not, they would not be your friend at all..
it is a dangerous topic love in a friendship group. but if you really love together why not try it out. but the chance that your friendship group will broke is available. often love is bigger than the friendship.
i had the same exact issue. i went for her and didnt care about the friends. after a year or so, we broke up and all my friends in the group are pretty much moving away from me. she on the other hand is still hanging out with them. so in this case, i got fcked over the most. But now I'm kinda talking one of my old friend from the same group cause we used to be mad good buddies. so wat im trying to say that its a risk if u do that. but if u really gonna go out with him, make sure ur friends are ok with it. talk to ur friends and see y they're not fond of u going out with the guy.
