I got a wedding invitation from my ex whom I have not been in touch with for over 6 years now and I am not planning to go, do you think I should still send a gift or money??
6 years is pretty long so im going to assume that you've moved on as well. you should go and bring a hot date to show her off.
For those who dunno me .. I am married and my wife is pregnant .. so yeah .. I sure moved on way back .. I am just debating whether to send the gift or not and whether it's even appropriate to do so at all.
^ Depend if you still want to think her as a friend or not, if not then just pretend you've never received it
yeah, just because you guys weren't right for each other doesn't mean you guys still can't be friends. it is appropriate to send a gift, but it is up to you to decide if you want to. you could also ask your wife if she minds.
maybe she just wanna fill up the seats maybe she just want u to give her sth in return maybe she still consider you as a friend ,etc i think every married couple would like to have money as gifts, since they spent so much already.
I think Kay is a gold digger... have you guys kept in touch since then? seems kinda random for her to invite you all of a sudden. and didn't you have a bad experience at a wedding already?? sure you wanna go for round 2? hahah
Okay .. we were together for about a year and even though our breakup was mutual, I don't feel good about keeping in touch. A past is just a past .. we should be moving on and forward. In fact, I didn't even invite her to my wedding so yeah .. I found it odd to get one from her especially when we haven't been in touch. It's just plain wrong if she was just filling up empty seat or expect $$$ for her wedding expense. I have not discuss it with my wife yet cuz these days, I don't wanna let her get moody as she already is .. lol .. so yeah... gotta think some more ..
-nono Kay is not a gold digger. money money money give her $$ she prolly send u an invitation just to be nice =) never know what a woman is thinking.
since you don't feel good about keeping in touch, i say you should decline the marriage invitation. don't go and don't get her a gift. i don't think she just invited you to fill seats but that's just me. move on and forget; nice approach.
i guess its proper etiquette, but you don't HAVE to. if you really want to forget her, i say don't send. it seems like your living a good life right now. but if you still want to be friends, you can send.
thnks ... i'll sleep on it first .. i might end up not replying nor sending anything at all. best to keep things clean ..
uh if you guys haven't been keeping in touch for a while and you didn't even invite her to the wedding and you don't care about seeing her again just ignore the invitation.
