true that not everyone has inheritance but on the contrary of what you said that you can't hate relatives that's not true as i do hate some of my my relative's, altho i hate them i still try and show respect so i don;t get moaned out and keep out of trouble lol funny how he would be on PA and he read this and secretly pretended that he didnt know the OP :kekekegay:
hate is a strong word .. i too don't think you actually hate them .. at least you sound too sweet to do that ... lol i think you're just upset with your relative's action and whatever but in reality, i don't believe they meant any harm. picture it like this .. if your sibling ask you to do something .. would you? probably ... some of us are spoiled by siblings when we were young so that behavior remains .. what we see now appeared like "shit, that bastard uncle is taking advantage of my parents" but keep in mind, they're sibling .. that's how they communicate or act around one another. in reality, you can act lilke that around family .. outside .. ignore and beat the shit out of you... no one owes you anything to do shit for you ... know what i mean? ok .. that's only close blood related relatives now .. not distant ones .. believe it or not .. blood related relatives will help you when you need it .. they may be shitty or whatever .. afterall, it's family ..
i gathered hate is a very strong word indeed but trust me one uncle that i have he is basicly taking the piss type, he never changes but yes siblings can't help and can't ignore him as he's now the elder brother of them all, but even my dad can't help but to help him when he's in trouble coz he's scared that he might get killed (ie dy yee long (those black market people who lends you money?)), and he never does anything to repay or even pay back the debt he owes to all my aunts and uncles (and dad) i hate him simply coz he is genuinely not a nice person either
let him let off steam with his f@@@ words. If it makes him feel better, than this forum has helped him release some of his anger,frustration and pent up feelings. We need a release valve sometime or someone with a listening ear otherwise, we build up these emotions in our bodies and it could lead to more serious conditions such as heart problems and cancer in the future.
