Should friends date friends?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by hobogloves99, Jun 20, 2009.

  1. hobogloves99

    hobogloves99 Well-Known Member

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    ^thats nice to know
     
  2. PuccaxGaru

    PuccaxGaru Active Member

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    I'm kinda in a similar situation just that I don't know if the guy is still interested in me... which he kinda was. And yeah, I'm a wimp and dont really dare to confront him. T__T
    He is someone very special to me and I don't want to lose him if things turn out with rejections/break ups if there really is something going on between us. -sigh-
    But alot of my friends did say the same as above... how life is too and how I should take a risk and have no regrets. With no risk you wont get any reward. ;[
     
  3. danxstry

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    why not, everyone starts off as friends, i think it is even better than to date a stranger
     
  4. hobogloves99

    hobogloves99 Well-Known Member

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    i get what u mean, u don't wanna loose wat u already have. but after whats happened, i have to say it is so worth it, life is much better that way. so go for it, u'll be happier together than apart. live life with no regrets.
    i guess if u break up then let it be and hope for the best. u'll have lots of good memories
     
  5. Flames

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    Yeah, so risk it, just like how I usually risk a jump Heavy punch to do a strong combo with M.Bison, even though I'm risk taking a shoryuken to the face. But once I hit him, hohoho crouch medium punch, crouch medium kick cancel to heavy scissors kick and cancel to super, awesome damage. So I say yes, with great risk, comes with great return! And even a win! But even if you lose, you still learnt something headbang2
     
  6. lilpinkchar

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    i think that's a personal issue. There are people going to say go for it then there are people who will say don't do it. whatever you think is the best then do that.
     
  7. palal

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    why not if both fall in love with one another? it's not easy to find someone you love and at the same time being loved as well. there's a risk to take there cos if anything, you'll lose a friend but who cares? life is short...seize the moment -innocent2
     
  8. hobogloves99

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    thanks guys. though we haven't exactly told our group of friends yet and its been 2 months. but most of them realise something is happening :D
     
  9. im sorry but i think this is stupid and selfish. theres a saying that goes "bros before hoes" or "chicks before dicks". you guys really don't give a shit about your friends. when the inevitable happens, you will split the circle, and all hell will break lose.

    it's happening a fourth time for me, and all of those times, the group breaks.

    my rule of thumb is to go for girls who have no affiliation to me what so ever.
     
  10. ShinZu

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    go for it if u like him alot.
     
  11. 1mAzn

    1mAzn Active Member

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    there's a saying out there "Don't Date Your Best Friend"
    If hes not your best friend then dooooo ittttt
     
  12. tom88my

    tom88my Active Member

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    yes I think that is prefectly fine... if you like the guy why not, if you don't try it you will regard it for the rest of your life..
     
  13. kimoi

    kimoi Active Member

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    lol friends shouldnt date friends
    only friend's sisters!~
     
  14. setshiro

    setshiro Well-Known Member

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    shit friends' sisters is what is getting me in a little trouble now...ahaha...only a little
     
  15. ingwen

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    isnt friendship a base to start with in a relationship?
     
  16. hobogloves99

    hobogloves99 Well-Known Member

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    thanks guys for the support and advice!
    just an update:
    recently my friend and her bf broke up, both were part of our friendship circle, everything stayed the same so i guess there's proof that this could work out fine.
    so right now relationship is good i guess, only one main problem, parents.... =.="
     
  17. brown_bear

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    ^ hmm..parents...?..im guessing its the ya should be focussing on school..and ya too young to date..?....-lol
     
  18. YiPjE

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    If you love your friend, just go for it and otherwise forget it!
     
  19. suziki

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    Why not?
     
  20. Tiger King

    Tiger King Well-Known Member

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    The time it takes you to think about that question could have been time spent with this friend who has now become your special somebody.