if you are married or in a relationship with someone, do you still go out alone with single friends, like going out shopping, having dinner or movie. What will your bf/gf says about it. thx for your advises/comments.
Well my boyfriend doesn't approve of me going out alone with a guy friend. With a girl it's fine. I can go out if it's with a group of friends.
hmm, think to respect each other, better to go out in a group to prevent unnecessary misunderstanding...
she can go out with her sorority sis and i can go out with my frat bros BUT she can't drink anything alcohol though. if there are guys/gals in the mix, then she or i would only go when we're together .. it's perfectly ok.
my boyfriend's okay with me going out with my friends.. either female/male just as long as i let him know with whom i'm going with and where..
I let my girlfriend go out with her friends...and most of the times it's just a group of guys. Soo errm yea, I guess it's fine. She doesn't say anything about me with female friends. I guess it's just whether you can trust the person or not? ..but then again, I think i've lost trust in her due to leaving her to her guy friends all the time, sometimes i see her with certain individuals as more of a boyfriend to her, due to all these hugs, photos and shizzles - she spends quite a lot more time with some, and also has 100's of pics with certain guys...compared to me. But I guess it's normal. . .-innocent2
I probably thought about this before too... I personally would not encourage my GF/Wife to hang with a single guy friend... but I would not prevent her, as long as she tells me...
its all about, if you are the person going out, do you think it is right? ify ou do then go for it if not, then don't.
i personally wouldn't like that idea. and i think she would feel the same way about me. I didn't have that problem when i was in my long term relationship with my ex. But when i started a new relationship, i guess i just wanted to be secure. Guess trust is a big issue.
I think if both people involved in the relationship trust one another, they'll be okay with their significant other going out with someone of the opposite gender alone. If they're uncomfortable with the idea of their gf/bf going out with someone of the opposite sex that's just a friend then there's something wrong there (insecurities/trust/etc)
Thanks for everyones reply!!!! More Question: 1) If you are single, do you try to avoid going out with an opposite sex friend? do you feel uncomfortable when you go out alone? (not that if there is anything there at all) 2) There is nothing between them, but when a single go out with the opposite sex (who has a gf/bf/married), both of them are really having a great time together, like laughing and talking non-stop, playing/looking at every items together when go shopping. Is this normal? Where does it draw the line? thanks.
Haahahhaa since I've got a lot more time than my bf has, I hang out with my friends a lot. It doesn't matter if my friend is a guy or a girl, if I'm alone with that friend @ his/her home, if I'm going to the movie with that person... My bf won't judge me for that... Just encourage me to do things with my friends. Since most of my friends are guy (girls talk so much about make-up and stuff which don't have my interests), I hang out a lot with my guy friends. Kit (Resentless) in example, We call eachother honey hahaha. It's just a bit awkward when my bf is next to me while saying that In common... Trust is essential in a relation. So that's the most important to work on. When my bf and I were just together for 1 month, I told him I would hang out with my ex (who was still having a crush on me), and the only thing my bf said, was: It's OK, I trust you!
i don't see why u can't see your friends if u're attached..i mean you guys are not doing anything except having fun..if u're cheating on ur other half that is different, otherwise i will still go out shoppin, dinner or watch movie with my friends..but it gets harder once u have kids
i dont see a problem with going out with your friends same or opposite sex as long as you're not cheating on your significant other
i think u r playing with fire if u r married and still go out alone with single friends of the opposite sex... unless your single friends is homosexual of course... u r placing yourself in temptation... if u r in a serious committed relationship it's not a good idea...
relationships are abt trust. if u both have a mutual understanding, i don't c y not. if u r really committed and ur single friend knows that u have no interest in them, it should b fine. everybody's relationship dynamics r different, so kno where ur limits and boundaries r w/ ur other half.
I would avoid going out with guy who are single, unless they are my long-time friends. Though my hubby is okay with it, but I think should still spare a thought for him.
yes... relationships are all about trust... but just because you trust them it doesn't mean they won't get tempted and make mistakes... after we are all only human...
