I haven't posted here in a couple months, but I wanted to ask you guys for advice. I used to be too shy to talk to most Asian girls, but I kept going to Asian Club meetings and talking to Asian chicks . I realized that I wasn't shy anymore, but that I still hadn't talked to the only Asian girl I actually like for her personality. One day I spent my entire 2nd block class (Intermediate Math... yeah, I suck at Math...) preparing to talk to the girl I liked. I went towards my 3rd block class and saw her. I approached her and said, "Hey, I don't believe we've met before. My name's Sean. What's your name?" Then she smiled and told me her name. We talked for a couple minutes and then went to our classes. I felt great. I would see her everyday between 2nd and 3rd blocks, but we haven't had too many conversations. Her English is pretty choppy because she moved here from Vietnam not too long ago, so it can be hard to understand her. I asked her to prom, and she told me that she doesn't go to dances. She thanked me for asking her, and I said, "Well you are the most beautiful girl I've ever seen." I forgot what she said after that. Ever since 4th term started I only get to see her in the mornings before school. All the other Asian girls I'm friends with know that I like her, because I went to them for advice. A couple of my White friend who happen to be girls know about it too. I don't really hang out with guys... They encourage me in my goals and ambitions to date this Vietnamese girl, it's been a real source of motivation. Ok, so last Friday I was with a couple friends at the mall. We passed bubbletea, and I noticed the girl I like works there (how stereotypical....). I went in there and talked to her. Then I got a beverage and drank that while my friends and I sat at the table bar. After that I went to the back counter to talk to the girl I like. Her friend asked me why I was there and I told her why. One of the employees, a mentally handicapped guy asked "You're one of these girl's boyfriends I assume?" I said, "Hopefully." Then he apologized for asking such a personal question. The girl I like is really shy, so she continued to work. Her friend said, "I'll tell her to go to the bedroom, then you won't have to wait." I was speechless, I never thought I would hear a small Asian girl say something so rude. I told her that I'm not like that but she just gave me dirty looks. The manager told me to come back at 9 if I wanted to talk to them, and I asked if he was hiring anytime soon. That girl's comment really upset me, my friends kept trying to cheer me up. One of them told me that she knows what it's like to be shy, and that I didn't do anything wrong. She's going to talk to the girl I like during gym class about it. I'm confused about the comment really. Does she think I'm just another White guy who wants to have sex with a hot foreign Asian girl? Is she jealous that guys don't go out of their way to see her? Is she angry that I talk to her friend? I'll see how things go once I get back to school. What do you think her intentions were?
Well, I finally got a date with a pretty Asian girl. She was an exchange student from Thailand. The funny part is, she actually asked ME to take her to the homecoming dance. I bought her ticket, flowers and a nice dinner at a Thai restaurant. We had a great time. But I found her blog last week. She writes in fluent English, but she still talks in broken English. She wrote that our date was 'HORRIBLE' and described me as a 'almost-nerdy-guy'. It's obvious that she used me just so she could get into the dance, since she's a sophomore she couldn't go under normal circumstances, and being a senior I was able to buy her a ticket. What a shitty first date... Do women from Asian countries typically use American men like that? I've befriended several Vietnamese girls at my school since my last post and I'm going to be an assistant in the ESL department starting next month. See, I'm not shy anymore. -lol
Use her back (and front, ups and downs :naughty and then move on to another next girl -innocent / victim -whistle
No not all Asian girls are like that... but actually, you can notice the girls who used to use (American) men... You should filter the ones out that are worth it to go out with
