should i ask her out?

i like this girl but i dont know what she thinks of me. When we are in class by or studying by ourselves she is pretty flirty, but when her friends are around he seems distant. Sometimes when I ask her to dinner to would come but some other times she would just dodge the question. I dont know if nice looking girls are just naturally flirty, or if i am just reading the wrong signals. Then she tries to set me up with one of her friends? Does that mean she doesnt like me? I think I have hinted enough times to let her know that i like her. Do you guys think she gets my message?

 

I don't really know your relationship with her, but if you are not THAT close, I think you should just ask her out. At least you tried. If she rejects you and treats you differently, then just move on to another girl. If you still want her after she rejects you, be the "hard to get" type. Don't always call her out or invite her. When she introduce you to her friends, act like you are interested. If she gets jealous, she would try to get you back. If she still doesn't care, then she is not interested at all. Hope it works out for you either way.

 

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ya but if i act interested in another girl doesnt that make her feel that I am moving from girl to girl really fast?

 

yea, but she is the one introducing, right?

 

I SAY DOOOO ITTT
you got nothing to lose =)
life is short give ita shot

 

i agree, do it. ask her out? if she says no, no biggie. move on. that's how it works haha.

 

do it. if you EPIC FAIL, at least you'll know -- but the payoff will be awesome if she says yes. Go for broke.

 

nah dun do it....sit back..twiddle ya thumbs and mebe she'll come to you...when that day
doesnt come be sure to make the "i miss her" thread or "i wish i said it to her" blah blah


just do ittt.....then ya can say ya tried and have no regrets...!...good luck

 

why did you hint to her that u like her so quick, now she is backing off
my other friend (german) likes one of my asian female, and out of nowhere in one of my parties, he gave her a xmas present and everytime now whenever he asks her out for dinner, she would say yah sure, sometime, and after a year had passed, still no dinner...if my german friend says he doesn't take it as a date anymore but i think she is backing off because everything went too quickly

 

Tell her you have alcohol and you'll let her play with your wiener.

 

i say just do it. there is nothing to lose. if it doesnt work out, you are not going to talk anymore? still friends i hope. if it works, you get yourself a girl

 

seems like shes a typical flirty girl. so she might just be flirting with you maybe with a bunch of other guys too...