Is it too early?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by xshadox, Dec 21, 2009.

  1. xshadox

    xshadox Active Member

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    So i met this girl about 10 days ago and we've been hanging out together everyday for these past 10 days. I have alot in common with her and we get along pretty well. We usually just sit at my house and watch some tv or movies. We got to know each other quite a bit since we chilled so much. We've been kissing and holding hands everywhere we go, most of our friends know that we like each other and some even consider us bf/gf already. But I just want to ask her out anyways but is it too soon?
     
  2. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    there is a rule, a rule of 1 month.

    if you take any longer then that, you will be in her friend zone. Do any time before 1 month or GG dude :)
     
  3. Dav

    Dav Well-Known Member

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    ^ if they kiss and hold hands so often, i don't think he'll be in her friend zone.
     
  4. xshadox

    xshadox Active Member

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    Yeah so today I took her out to meet some of my friends. We were holding hands and we kinda feed each other. I know that we really like each other and my friends didn't know I haven't asked her out yet but they kept saying stuff like get your girlfriend to take a picture with us and she didn't really mind. So i'm just wondering if its too soon to ask her out since i've only known her for 10 days.
     
  5. azndevil521

    azndevil521 New Member

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    just ask her out before you lose the chance to!!! =) I think she is waiting for you >w< GOOD LUCK!!! surprise her with a necklace or something! haha =P
     
  6. xshadox

    xshadox Active Member

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    i thought about making a heart with x-mas lights in the snow and writing something in the snow inside it outside my backyard then take her to my balcony to look down at.
     
  7. azndevil521

    azndevil521 New Member

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    OMG!! thats so cute!!! >W< go for it!
     
  8. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    grow two sack of balls and ask her out maybe she is just over flirting with you .
     
  9. haun

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    hahahah you have the balls to kiss with her but dont have the balls to ask her out? you have already started kissing her and you still have doubt as to if it is too early to ask her out or not :O?

    ask her out doesnt have to be in the expensive restaurant or hotel. going to your friends with her is pretty much considered as going out with her already.
     
  10. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    LoL....
     
  11. blkperc

    blkperc Well-Known Member

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    well...holidays are coming up...why dun you ask her out and prepare a special gift for her?
     
  12. -Tisken-

    -Tisken- Well-Known Member

    according to writing, you almost did it.... just need a finish blow and the victory is yours !
     
  13. xshadox

    xshadox Active Member

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    Yeah thanks for all the advice I sealed the deal on tuesday
     
  14. FallOutBoyx530

    FallOutBoyx530 Well-Known Member

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    lol. be smart. if you're benefiting...awesome!


    bring on the flames!
     
  15. silentasian

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    Ask her out already!
     
  16. yasuaki

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    Dude, I hope you've already asked her to be your GF already. If you're kissing her and she is kissing you and she isn't the type to play around then she is also into. Also if she is holding hands in front of your friends isn't that a sign she is siliently saying she is your girl?

    I'm a ABC so I'm used to the whole ask a girl out thing. However backi in China (HK, Macau & TW if you think of them as differnt countries) people don't always ask the opposite sex out. Well.. they do as in if you ask them to got out to dinner and movie they accept is it a sign of first date, then after to proceed to the next step and before long they reach the stay where you're at (kissing & holding hands). Note this happens over a sustained period of time like in your case, and not just a once off.

    I think there is a 99.999999% chance that she considers herself your girlfriend already.
     
  17. BestOffer

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    handout buddies? since there are fuck buddies -_-2
     
  18. xshadox

    xshadox Active Member

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    lol I asked her out about a week ago I didn't think peoeple were still posting in this thread
     
  19. brown_bear

    brown_bear ☆‧° ☆﹒﹒‧ ☆ ﹒﹒‧☆‧° ☆

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    ^ hahaha good job..!...you made her your gf...? or you back sucking lemons....=P
     
  20. xshadox

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    haha yeah so shes my gf now. I have another question though. So lately we started making out and we started to get on top of each other and she lets me touch her around her private area with clothes on and when I tried to go into her pants she said no, but then she kept going on top of me. So i don't really know what kind of signal shes trying to send to me. Maybe shes on her period? and just wants to dry hump?