That's a whole different level there man. Maybe she think its too early in the relationship?? or you can try to somehow ease her into it. i mean having sex with a guy (im guessing you've know her for atleast 2 weeks now?) is pretty fast aint it??
just wait.. you'll get laid soon enough.. or maybe you already have. chicks always giving us guys blue balls pretty smooth.. fact that you did so much in 10 days and got her to be your gf in less than a month, lol. i remember reading so many posts in other forums where guys couldn't accomplish what u've done in 3+ months period. granted, they're probably the 'nice guys' or inexperienced though
yeah so today we went a little farther, we were making out for maybe half an hour and she took off my shirt and i took hers off. I was kinda playing with her through he pants but it was kinda hard but she was moaning. She went into my pants but outside my boxers. When I tried to unbutton her pants she kinda hinted me not to but that was before i took her shirt off so I didn't know if she wanted to have sex or not. She's a virgin and this is my 3rd virgin gf and I feel bad if i were to do it. Also we haven't even been going out for a month yet.
Why don't you ask the main subject instead of us? You should really talk it out with her and ask her what is she comfortable with and what she is not comfortable with. Just be like, you just wanna make sure you don't cause her to be uncomfortable and blah blah blah. I'm sure she'd tell you. Then, you won't have to be guessing what she's thinking anymore.. lol us girls arent THAT hard to figure out if you guys just took and effort to do so.
^ You have just proved the guys only think one thing....... Coz you said girls are hard to figure out and you are trying to say guys are....
I think she might not be ready yet... things like this takes time especially if she's a virgin. You probably know this as well since she isn't ur first girlfriend that's a virgin. It's not like ur going out with her for sex, so just go with the flow and go with her pace. I give you props for respecting her and not rushing her into doing what she's not ready to do.
Yeah even though i have some sexual urges im just resisting cause I don't want to do something that she might regret and I really like her. I kinda feel insecure that shes going to a party on the 29th. Its not that I don't trust her but she said if she's too drunk she'll just crash there and I said i'll pick her up and she told me its fine and i've been cheated on by my past 2 gfs and I was with each one for over a year. I quit smoking and a bunch of drugs and I asked if I could have some for that night that shes gone and she doesn't want me to but if I don't i'm probably gonna be worried the whole night and go crazy. Shes not gonna be with her usual friends that I know but a bunch of people that she doesn't even know since its her friends birthday.
If you've already gone as far as holding hands and kissing, you sound like you're dating already ask her out, already! or else she will think you are not interested and move on!
i dont think its too soon . if you two are seriously in love , then time doesnt matter . in the movie titanic , it only took a few days for the two to be madly in love .
