If your gf/bf doesn't want sex period, what do you do? You're someone who want sex after a certain period of time into the relationship. She has little or no sex desire or active hormones. She doesn't want kids in the future, but she also said she might when she's like 25. Even if I try to set it into the mood for it, it does not lean towards the sexual side. Suggestions? also: Is there any girls out there that does not want sex period? If yes, what stimulates you for that desire? I'm just curious and if I am doing something wrong. edit: I also believe that sex comes from the flow of the relationship, the mood of each other. I also feel that it stimulates the relationship. Am I wrong? She doesn't even want me to touch her. She had became wet before, but that's only because I was really mad (i don't get this concept, can someone explain it?). Thanks in adv. >.<
i dont know how long you two have been dating... but i think that you should give her some time~ you cant rush in a relationship. its not only about to have sex in a relationship. most important is that you like each others. a relationship without having sex can also be nice ~
If you're like me, the first time you meet any asian girl you should be able to catagorize them quite easily into any of the following groups: 80% of Asian girls fall into the "Cute but virginal/ice queen" characterization. See following: This type of asian girl has most likely never had any sexual experience with a guy if they are under 23ish. They will view sex as gross, think that hair on a dude is disgusting, want you to dress in the tightest pants possible and style your mop in the latest lang jai fashion. But wait! there's hope. Although these girls seem cold, if you can get them exposed to sex, im sure they will love it. Asian chicks are intense bro, once you get them into something they will be hooked. You just gotta move slow, tease her with the foreplay, kiss her neck, whisper sweet nothings in her ear, rub her thighs, awww yeeaaaahhhh, and don't forget the sexy music sung by a burly black man with a baritone voice. *cough cough* i digress. Moving on. The other 10% of asian girls are the "sluts"! This is a fun group of asian girls. :wackit: They were born with curvaceous bods and having a large bosom and bubble butt generally yields a cam-whore persona. See following: These girls are high maintanance and thats pretty much it. If you've got deep pockets, alot of time to handle baggage and a hot body, and a pretty secure mind to deal with the fact your girlfriend is probably out at a club every night dancing with random dudes who are checkin out her boobies, then go for it. There are also 2 other 5% catagories. The ugly asian chicks: whom i shall not spend any time discussing cuz i'd probably die. and the remaining 5% are the normal, not crazy, not extremely intense, not too clingy, and generally all around perfect asian girls. I don't have a picture for this one, cuz i'd hate to put a pic of my girlfriend up without her permission ^^ so we'll just leave that part. This type of asian girl is your best bet, but finding one is going to be hard, if you find one hold on tight yo. sounds like your girlfriend is in the first catagory, all you gotta do is warm her up to the idea, talk to her about being intimate, spend some time just cuddling in bed and maybe try to turn her on a bit. If that fails, option 2 is to get some booze into her. 60% of the time alcohol works every time. Also, for a bit more serious advice, if she got turned on last time you were angry, maybe she has some psychological connection between violent behavior and sexual excitement. In which case you have 2 options, try to work with it, or get out now because she's probably crazy and you'll wake up one morning in a pool of blood with your weeny cut off (true story).... kay maybe that wasn't so serious. But you get the idea. Tisken is being a little idealistic to suggest that a relationship without any physical connection is still viable. If you're boyfriend and girlfriend you need that physical connection, i think its a major part of a relationship and its pretty hard to manage if one partner doesn't think the other is attractive at all. Then again, this all changes when you get married apparently. Apparently people just stop having sex. Marriage sounds awesome -_-.
Great job fear, but one question...why the asian school girls pic?!?! It could score you into the pa pedo section LOL
did u try to get her intoxicated? lol..if my girl doesn't want kids then im moving on. Thats like one of the first things i ask a girl..."do u like kids"
Lawl I <3 fearless's explanation! Show her porn or touch her up and if she likes neither try the wedding night or try out some affrodisiacs Meh I can't speak on behalf of the girls here coz I'm theee normal typo ^___^
Other than ralph's post, I never seen anyone have longer post than he does Good job bro, you make us proud to be Canadians
I should have put it under its own thread on how to describe and understand asian women lol. Most asian dudes should already have a basic understanding of this, but if any white guys ever visited this forum trying to understand how asian chicks work it might be helpful .
it really depends whether the asian chick is brought up in the western world or the conservative side of the world ie the middle east/far east... there's a difference with their attitudes...
I think there is something wrong with her or just her excuse not to have sex with you. Maybe there is a hint for you, move on and get out of here, you are not geting any from me!!!!!!!
