Been with a girl for 7 years and she finally decides to end this relationship. Is it wrong that two girls are together? she wants a normal life. Does this mean i can never provide a normal life to anyone in this world? Is it really that abnormal to be gay?
wow 7 years are quite long ! so she decided to break up. but it doesnt mean that you wont find a new partner in the future.
dont be sad. it's ok to be gay. it's like that with any relationship. straight or gay. breakups happen. go have a few drinks with some really good friends and then pick yourself back up. there is someone out there for everyone. dont give up on relationships.
i think its normal to be gay, but the society is not ready to accept that yet. Being gay might be hard to get hook up. Anyway, TIME WILL HEAL.
normal life? meaning she wants to be with a man after all? nothing right or wrong, as long as you're happy in life thats all it matter, 7 yrs is a long time sigh, but dont just let this bring you down and haunt you forever, there're many others in the world and there must be one who is the one meant to be with you hope you can walk away from this pain soon & good luckz
It's weird that she spend 7 years with you and than decided to go straight, wonder what changed her mind.
How old is she... depending on her age, her definition of a normal life could mean, I want to see the world with other men. Which means she wants to meet different people and have different experiences. What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger!
we're both in our mid 20s. So yeah... started dating in high school. And well i guess this is what happens. The new problem is that she is now seeing a guy already. Everyone is telling me that i was used. She was just with me until she found the guy. Sigh... each days just get worst and worst.
is about time that she break up with u.. coz girls reach a certain time they wanna hav a baby that is a survey done by some professor in some university
I'm curious, not that you have to answer this, but do you believe that being homosexual is a choice? or do you think its genetic? Being in a homosexual relationship for 7 years and then suddenly going cold turkey and dating a guy seems to suggest to me that, atleast for some, its definitely a choice. Then again, a high percentage of women would fall under the category of being bisexual, so maybe she was never truly a lesbian. The whole concept of homosexuality seems to go against the most basic of human drives, which is to propogate one's genetic material. I find it very hard to believe when people say its not a choice, and that they are gay due to some genetic quirk. Then again, i'm no doctor, so who am i to speculate. I hope things work out with you, maybe you'll find another nice girl soon? best wishes.
actually no one rele knows yet whether it's genetic or a choice. i think it's possibly a mix of the two. but yea the fact that people are bisexual also suggests to me that it is a choice. it is influenced by some certain genes though i think and then the environment possibly. also, a study says that the majority of girls will go through a phase of dreaming being with another girl so it could have also been a phase rather than her being bisexual. though i guess u could argue that it will automatically make u bisexual but that is arguable.
hey it ok to be gay, i ave many gay friends too, this doesnt nesseary mean shes not gay no more, she probably needs some time to think through some things..
Yeah .. it's wrong to be gay and you know it; otherwise, you wouldn't even be question it in the your post. Your mom gave birth to a daughter .. not a weirdo. Your friend realized it now and moved on with her life whilst you're just as stupid as before .. trying to find yourself.
Obviously it's not wrong to be gay. But maybe your ex just wants a change in her life. Don't worry, don't lose hope. There is definitely someone out there who will be happy to be with you
Awww guts bro :( cheer up!! I'm sure you'll find another person that will love you back and make you smile each day Don't give up on love!!
