What do u think abt 中女?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by wingli, Mar 27, 2010.

  1. wingli

    wingli Well-Known Member

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    Okay, it's a quite polylimic nowadays, so i wanna know ur meanings.
    If u ever don't know what it is , check it up :
    [video=youtube;UiXqwsqYKrc]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UiXqwsqYKrc"[/video]

    and here there is a reply from a tvb actress :
    http://www.youtube.com/user/ericayuen#p/u/4/mpOSufBv46s

    Ok, what i wanna is if u, girls, are u afraid of being a middel girl?
    I'm only 21 but i feel kinda scared of being one, and i confess that i ve never been in a relationship before, i 'm kinda shy but i really do take care of myself, i mean without make up, i'm normal, just as everyone, but once i got make up on, i can be competitive. Also, i'm really not a leung girl neither, i pay attention for the fashion trend, what about my character, i think i'm normal but i confess that i don't chill-clubbing enough... a brave girl.
    Ok, so many thing to say i'm afraid of being a middel girl when i'm old.
     
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  2. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    u knw wha? fck that

    aging is normal, why do i have to afraid of that lame term make up by those arrogant ppl? 15years old laugh at 21, then 21 laugh at 31 so on, well dang it! eventually you'll be a old granny!! its just the matter of time!! u cnat stay young unless u spend ur money in surgeries and botox whatever shit you use, that's PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. You have market in the early 20s, OMGGGG alll those men chasing after you, once you reached 25, dang u lose half of them cus 25's a frigging awkward age to them, and actually 25+ is the so called middle-girl now!! wtf!!!!! you're not selling yourself as a product when it comes to dating/marriage/relationship! if you're, then you should know different product suits different market n' there're plenty ppl living on earth, you can find someone for sure damnt

    tbh i dont trust those guys at this stage (college frosh+) cus most of them are players n' STR ppl, such a waste of time to be with. you dont have to find a bf by clubbing drinking partying like everyone else, jeez stop folowing this "trend"~do whatever u want stop following ppl!! leung luis are chased by ppl whose eyes focus on physical appearance n' likely just wanna show off, there're good points of being normal stop thinking like that. Enjoy your life now, wait until u become a mom n' u'll start to regret not enjoying ur single life in the past
     
  3. -Tisken-

    -Tisken- Well-Known Member

    wise words in deed -innocent

    totally agree. have nothing add.
     
  4. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    I dig cougars...
    ANYHOW... those chicks on the clip were... -_- Yeaa....
     
  5. If you are comfortable with your current way of life, then there is nothing to worry about. Love comes when you are the most unexpected. The beauty is the in eyes of the beholder.
     
  6. Flames

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    Time for cheeks to come in and answer this?
     
  7. tiapk7932

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    If you are enjoying the quality of how you spend you life, then don't worry about the labels these people try to put on you. Unfortunately, many of these labels made up by asian tend to bring negativity to being a woman pass the age of 25. . "By-Hurn"..."Chung Lur"...."Lou Dai Chang"... F them. Think positively for yourself.
     
  8. Xib

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    The women in the clip ... acting like a tard.
     
  9. As long as she looks good, over 18 i'll hit it till the sun come up..... then i'll bounce. True Story.

    and yes, age just comes... just accept it and all the wisdom that comes with each year....
     
  10. brown_bear

    brown_bear ☆‧° ☆﹒﹒‧ ☆ ﹒﹒‧☆‧° ☆

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    i duno..when i used to see your avy...i thought you were a guy...prolly those tats..


    i think there are better things to be afraid of....and sort of like whut musha says...
    ages comes with wisdom and life experiences...so just be happy with whut you have
     
  11. Espresso

    Espresso Well-Known Member

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    I will marry you. I am ZHONG LAM LOL

    Dude, stop worrying about that. But you got a picture? -blush2
     
  12. -Tisken-

    -Tisken- Well-Known Member

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  13. suijei

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    Yea, I just turned 20 a couple of weeks ago and it started to freak me out too. But I don't consider zhong lui to be until you're at least 30. I guess you should be looking, but no need to throw yourself into the club scene (it's not exactly a place to meet a husband). ;)
     
  14. ^ 20 is nothing.... you want to hit 21 and then think about getting older......
     
  15. wingli

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    i know than i'm not a zhong lui yet, but what i mean is if i do need to the advantage of my golden time in order not to become a zhong lui later. Time pass really fast ...
    But my sis told me that i don't need to rush, that i must be demanding.... and not picking up someone randomly
    But i hear a lot of girls (港女) which mostly are very demanding are single and become zhong nu....
     
  16. Espresso

    Espresso Well-Known Member

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    just post a picture... u have to strive for your happiness...
     
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  18. wingli

    wingli Well-Known Member

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    my avatar
     
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  20. Flames

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    Is that with make up or without make up?

    Ain't that bad, I would say don't worry about it, you're still in the competition zone lol
    Also, prepare to have a few new friends and profile posts :xd: