Can a married man and a married woman be friends?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by sfcausa, May 16, 2010.

  1. sfcausa

    sfcausa New Member

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    Is there any possibility of a married man and a married be friend or sould mates? what if the married man develops feeling for her? what should she do if she also have some feeling for him also.
     
  2. lovetvb

    lovetvb Well-Known Member

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    Ok..I misread the title..thought they are divorced and want to get back together...
    To the question, personally ...No! They already having a family...to be fair... you don't wanted your other half cheated on you right ? So, in this case...if they both decided their love is more than everything ( including their currently families) then get divorce...and go seek other true love...Not on the other way around...
     
  3. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    they can be friends, but they should never cross that certain line between them because they're married already, what they do might ruin their own family. Developing feelings? what feelings? she/he understands your thoughts better than ur husband/wife? comfy feeling? personally i think they should calm down and decide whether its the real feeling, they might be just lost since they dont get that feelings from their partners, might be just a one time thing, like ah! how come my partner isnt as thoughtful and easy-going blah blha blah as you, when you get something better, you would regret the previous decisions you've made, but im sure there must be a reason why you decided to choose a certain person as your husband/wife

    its better if both of their other halves know about that friend, otherwise gosh....jealousy cough cough, woman can go crazy about that. They can be friends, just be cautious and keep a lil distance, they're married after all.
     
  4. They can be friends, but they cant be hanging out and going for alcohol (or w/e people do nowadays), it always leads to the same thing, infidelity.. look at our society today, affairs are hardly frowned on nowadays.
     
  5. Espresso

    Espresso Well-Known Member

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    Stop trying to create something that shouldn't happen. No, of course a married man and a married woman cannot be friends. They call this an AFFAIR !

    Why are you interacting w/ someone else on that level of friendship when you are already married? It makes no sense. Although people do do this. Shame !
     
  6. Xib

    Xib Well-Known Member

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    Why would a man want a women as a friend anyways, having a wife is enough trouble ..
     
  7. Married woman = B
    Married man = A

    A: hey my wife is really doing my head in
    B: yeah my husband is really getting on my nerves, not giving me enough attention
    A + B: Hey lets have an affair.
     
  8. lovetvb

    lovetvb Well-Known Member

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    B's husband = C
    A's wife = D

    C: Hey, your husband having an affair with my wife
    D: Yea, F$%i that A$%*(E , what shall we do
    C+D : Hey lets have an affair...
     
  9. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    C+D went to the motel. C waited for D to come out from shower. D came out. The two lied on the bed, still clothed. C reached out and wanted to take off D's bath rope.

    "Is it really okay?" D asked.

    "C'mon, they did it to us already. Don't you want revenge?"

    "But, I love him."

    C stopped and frowned. He lit up a cigarette.

    "Actually...yeah."

    They ended up talking about their past, elementary school, high school, college...

    (from a book called 'Murderous E-Mail)
     
  10. lovetvb

    lovetvb Well-Known Member

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    Married woman = B
    Married man = A


    A: hey my wife is really doing my head in
    B: yeah my husband is really getting on my nerves, not giving me enough attention
    A + B: Hey lets have an affair.



    B's husband = C
    A's wife = D

    C: Hey, your husband having an affair with my wife
    D: Yea, F$%i that A$%*(E , what shall we do
    C+D : Hey lets have an affair...

    C+D went to the motel. C waited for D to come out from shower. D came out. The two lied on the bed, still clothed. C reached out and wanted to take off D's bath rope.

    "Is it really okay?" D asked.

    "C'mon, they did it to us already. Don't you want revenge?"

    "But, I love him."

    C stopped and frowned. He lit up a cigarette.

    "Actually...I'm Gay."
     
  11. Xib

    Xib Well-Known Member

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    ^^^^
    that deserves a rainbow lawl

    LAWL
     
  12. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    hah nice twist in the end, yay we finished a good story
     
  13. lovetvb

    lovetvb Well-Known Member

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  14. marknd03

    marknd03 New Member

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    it is maybe friends
     
  15. jtommy87

    jtommy87 Well-Known Member

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    Friends would be okay, but once stepping over the line would make both families a mess! Unless both parties have no feeling for each other, than maybe
     
  16. JTuong

    JTuong Member

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    Well it depends... When both parties have feelings for each other, then that shouldn't be labeled as friends. On the other hand, if both parties don't have feelings for each other beyond that friend boundary, then why not?
     
  17. hem

    hem Well-Known Member

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    I dont really think that works out well. its better to have distance. even if married. Married doesnt tell us much, some cheat even more 'cause they are married. "married" doesnt mean its safe.
     
  18. nycill

    nycill Member

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    i dont think the man should bother being friends
     
  19. peichuen17

    peichuen17 Member

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    Married man and woman should remind themselves they no longer can mix friends with other sex easily as before, as that is the whole thing about getting married. If still want to have the privilege similar to single life, should remain single and be friends with whoever you wanted. As is it always easy to develop feelings to the opposite sex. Prevent it from happening from the very first stage. Stay away!!
     
  20. DK - Drama King

    DK - Drama King Active Member

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    Stop talking about K-drama here....lol. In reality, married man have affair with married woman all the time. No string attached. Married man and woman go back to his and her family and be "soccer dad and soccer mom". What do you expect the lonely wife would to and can do when their cheating husband go out and have fun for $360. She got to get it for free somehow...lol.