Should I ask her out?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by raven2k, Aug 18, 2010.

  1. raven2k

    raven2k Member

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    Hi y'all! Just thought I get yer opinions. I met a girl in a business meeting cos my company wanted to buy something.. and lo and behold, a really cute girl came to talk to me about the product. Hmm... maybe it's their tactic to make me really wanna buy their stuff... haha! Anyway, what I wanna ask is, is it appropriate for me to ask her out and if so, what is a good way of doing so? She did smile and laugh quite a bit while we were having the meeting. Could be she's just being polite? :p Your 2 cents?
     
  2. Jeff

    Jeff 神之馬壯

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    Maybe start out as friends first? :) Then maybe go deeper into the relationship if you really like her~.

    So get her # or email then start out talking on MSN or w/e~
     
  3. khaotic

    khaotic Fobulous

    If you feel like you had a connection, then I say just go for it. It's not like there's any complications like being in the same company.

    Good luck (Y)
     
  4. ralphrepo

    ralphrepo Well-Known Member

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    Just call me the 'hopeless' romantic, LOL... But here is my totally unbiased opinion, and you're probably not going to like it one bit.

    Corporations are known to hire prostitutes that target engagements with potential high caliber business contacts. The contacts don't know that they were set up, only believing themselves to be either manly or attractive, or had gotten "lucky" with a rep from "XYZ company." So, several months later, when XYZ company comes calling, they remember their liaison with fondness, and give that company higher marks than it should deserve. This is all part and parcel of corporate wet work; that is the dirty under the table techniques to lobby for advantage in the business world. When companies deal with million dollar accounts, a $5K/night professional prostitute is considered cost of doing "business." The other ugly potential is after you sleep with her, someone sends an anonymous email with a video of the two of you having sex, and threatens to release it unless you do such and such favors for XYZ company. :nono:

    Or put it this way, why do you think they sent a beautiful girl instead of some fat bald guy to the sales conference? It's to sucker horny young men who think more with their pants than their heads; focus on your mission and ignore the corporate eye candy. So you may have finally figured out what I meant by 'hopeless' romantic; that is, in these situations, the chance for real romance is literally hopeless. <_<
     
  5. nikiki

    nikiki Well-Known Member

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    try ask her out. if she rejects you a few times means that she is not interested in you.
     
  6. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    Damn .. did you fall for the trap before? lol

    I personally don't see any harm in asking her out but keep your guards up .. you don't wanna be targeted with a sexual harassment suit later.
     
  7. I wonder if businesses get tax deduction for these corporate hoes..

    yea obviously it's her job to put on the charm to sell the product... think about it first and see if it's really worth it to pursue...

    but then again.. ralph, raven2k might be the 'high caliber business contact' worth paying a hooker n black mailing over..
     
  8. kontradictions

    kontradictions Well-Known Member

    Tell her you have alcohol and you'll let her play with your wiener.
     
  9. Tell her you buy evrrting.. if you get da sexy time after..
     
  10. if you are asking yourself that question than you should just ask.
     
  11. neofj

    neofj Active Member

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    well its good to start out as friends and see where it goes from there
     
  12. neofj

    neofj Active Member

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    Its good to start off as friend and see where it goes from there
     
  13. candeee

    candeee Well-Known Member

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    No harm asking! If she says no, then too bad, you tried! Else you might just keep on thinking about it....
     
  14. bambee

    bambee Active Member

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    Ask her out! U don't need ppl to tell u what to do with your love life...My best advise would be U'll never know what it would bring you if u don't try...
     
  15. Sh4rP

    Sh4rP Member

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    I think she's got alternative motives considering she's there to sell something...
     
  16. M2K2Land

    M2K2Land Active Member

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    try without hesitate and if rejected just earn some experience :)
     
  17. Bulla

    Bulla Well-Known Member

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    The dude asked this in august.
     
  18. Marcus0328

    Marcus0328 Active Member

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    Whoa buddy asking her out just because of one meeting is too quick. Call her and take her out. Try to understand her better before making your next move.
     
  19. AsianLondon

    AsianLondon Well-Known Member

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    Yeah i think its a tactic to make you buy more of their product lol but yeah get to know her better and don't rush into anything.
     
  20. kevin

    kevin RAWR!


    Maybe this would help =]