Not sure why you were "scared" in your first post, but sounds like you guys went out. Are you interested in this guy or not? Holding hands is a good thing if you're interested.. Cut bait if you're not, and go for it if you are.
I just said no to him. I didn't really like him. I guess we are just friends now. He's still in my class.
Agree you should give him and yourself a chance. I mean you might meet you more friends and maybe your future boyfriends.
HAHA! This was my exact reaction when I read it, and I had to go back and reread.. Obviously don't immediately say yes/give an answer if you're not sure whether you like him or not!
i think u shouldn't have held his hand. gives wrong mixed signals for amateurs. but i guess it isn't rele a big deal usually. friends can hold hands together but not for long sustained periods of time and they would know ur just a friend bcos if u have been dating, then really like it's no big deal as some people might like the intimacy. i don't know. but still kind of rare. seems like u don't like him enough to be a bf. but u can be friends i'm sure. plus i think u shouldn't always trust ur friends when they judge someone. just bcos someone else doesn't like them doesn't mean u can't be friends with them and plus depends on the context. i find lots of people tend to pre-judge before they have met someone and i think that's a bad thing.
He looks like he really likes me, but when we're together. He's sort of quiet. I told him that we should be friends. I still have classes with him, but we don't seat together and he always look at me.
i think you should tell him that and hopefully he understands your position then just be friends and if you like him later then you can both date
alright, look... imma lay this flat out... not all guys see an attractive piece of art, such as urself mz. flower... and i dont know if u find him attractive enough 2 have a relationship, even as friends but the fact that he is quiet... certainly isnt doing a man's job to take the initiative haha... you be friends with him or not be friends with him result wouldnt matter or change... since u didnt say anything attractive about him, eg. looks, personality etc, best jus let things flow
cause if guys r not certain, they would ask like this.like if u showed that u were not 2 intersted in him. but i think if u think its 2 fast then tell him, normally, guys r fast..........cause they cant wait, u understand whut i mean,rite?
just ask just a girl. homoloto is just a girl. SHE knows all about a little girls heart you get what i means, rite?
maybe i dunno cause i no girl! unlike you! maybe rite you get it! but you a girl how you know? u sed girl dunno!
Just joke around with him keeping things at ease ... Maybe he thinks you're cute and is teasing you. But if he pops the question a second time ... You can always change it to a group event to get to know him better and then decide on from there. It's okay to date and test out the waters ...
