It feels like looks is always the first thing people are attracted to In my case...actually personality >.< Like to the point I don't care he doesn't look good lol. Then whenever I'm alone by myself I would just keep asking myself why the heck am I seeing this dude, there are better ones out there! just unbelievable.
When the person is very dirty/unhygienic.. you wouldn't even be attracted to them right? So for me.. its looks first.. or rather if they're tidy or not. After a while.. it comes to personality. No matter how good they look but have a shitty personality.. goodbye~
This is a stupid answer, but I gotta have a balance on both. I can't have Barbie with the IQ of a 3 year old. But I also can't have awesomeness looking like Michael Jackson.
looks always means something... like before u get to "know" them, it's pretty much all based on looks isn't it? obviously looks only get so far... and theres always a balance
Looks = gain your attention. Personality = the deal breaker. Doesn't matter if a girl has a face like Misa Campo and an ass like Kim Kardashian... I'm not going to hang around them if they are a bitch.
Most people generalise others by prejudice so appearance comes first. In which term are you talking about here, is this for a future wife/husband thing or as a friend? I'm more attracted to personality because I can get along with them better, at first I got to look at them first but I'm not more attracted to looks, that is how I generalise them (hmm are they a suitable friend).
For me, i guess you gota meet my minimum standard which is average, then personality from there. i have come across girls who have not met my minimum standard, then i got to know them (class mates etc) then they suddenly seem to meet that standard.
Hmm... i don't know... With the description you just gave, the looks is definitely more attractive on the short term. Sounds like a hell of a one night stand.
