More Attracted to Looks or Personality?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by KaY_xD, Apr 24, 2011.

  1. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    It feels like looks is always the first thing people are attracted to :yes:

    In my case...actually personality >.< Like to the point I don't care he doesn't look good lol. Then whenever I'm alone by myself I would just keep asking myself why the heck am I seeing this dude, there are better ones out there! just unbelievable.
     
  2. Jeff

    Jeff 神之馬壯

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    When the person is very dirty/unhygienic.. you wouldn't even be attracted to them right?

    So for me.. its looks first.. or rather if they're tidy or not. After a while.. it comes to personality. No matter how good they look but have a shitty personality.. goodbye~ :)
     
  3. MrCooperS

    MrCooperS Well-Known Member

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    This is a stupid answer, but I gotta have a balance on both. I can't have Barbie with the IQ of a 3 year old. But I also can't have awesomeness looking like Michael Jackson.
     
  4. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    looks always means something... like before u get to "know" them, it's pretty much all based on looks isn't it?
    obviously looks only get so far... and theres always a balance
     
  5. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    obviously~i mean like just, regular people like yourself something like that. dirty, turn off!
     
  6. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    of course :) balance balance


    TRUE!

    what if its someone your already know a little?
     
  7. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    Looks = gain your attention.

    Personality = the deal breaker.

    Doesn't matter if a girl has a face like Misa Campo and an ass like Kim Kardashian... I'm not going to hang around them if they are a bitch.
     
  8. kevin

    kevin RAWR!

    Most people generalise others by prejudice so appearance comes first. In which term are you talking about here, is this for a future wife/husband thing or as a friend?

    I'm more attracted to personality because I can get along with them better, at first I got to look at them first but I'm not more attracted to looks, that is how I generalise them (hmm are they a suitable friend).
     
  9. Bulla

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    For me, i guess you gota meet my minimum standard which is average, then personality from there. i have come across girls who have not met my minimum standard, then i got to know them (class mates etc) then they suddenly seem to meet that standard.
     
  10. MrCooperS

    MrCooperS Well-Known Member

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    Hmm... i don't know... With the description you just gave, the looks is definitely more attractive on the short term. Sounds like a hell of a one night stand.