We just started and we live pretty far from each other. Only get to hang out once a week. He already asked me to come to his house on the second date, and I was like NO. Went out a few more times, he brought it up again. I kinda gave in Because I can't just stay at my relative's house like a hotel every time I go to see him. And they don't know about us yet. Soooooo, advices? Suggestions? XD We are just going to be in the basement. (i'm pretty sure we're not going to do anything rated R, but who knows )
awwww cuteeeeeeeee avy..!!!!....*steals* =D ermmm....advice...drink responsibly...and enjoy your date ^^
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hahhahahahahhahahhaa sorry kay Kay but it seems like this is a perfect situation for a horror film Tehe ...... Basement too? Ohhhhh protect yourself girl .. (in both ways) <3 Tehe <3<3
Condoms ... for the rated R moments. Better be safe than sorry. You know that's what's in his mind. That's always what's in a dude's mind!
i know! the cat's pretty cute ^^ oh yes! too bad i don't get scared when watching horror films at home, only in theaters. I WILL TOTALLY PROTECT MYSELF XD thanks >.< ....i think he's pretty "gwun z" like bb said...we are not rushing anything at all oh lord.....XD isn't there a research says guys think about sex every minute or something like that?
KaY_xD, IMHO, if you have to end your question with this >>> Then, no; you do not need to go into some guy's basement.
Have you been round his house before just to hang out? If you have do you feel comfortable to stay there for the night? (with or without the x rated stuff) If you do and you don't want anything to happen then you make it clear to him that you aren't "ready" and should respect that and let you sleep over still with the reasons that you have True gent if he is that understandable
LOL its just an emoticon~ I haven't been to his house before. I think he just wants to show me his video games (I'm not a gamer myself) and get me playing. WELL of course i don't know whether this IS the main reason but i believe it
^ lol well i would suggest you go round to his house to visit (without sleeping over) at least once and see how you feel and see what you two do and what not surely you two have been on a few dates by the sounds of things now so even if you sleep over (innocently or not) would be fine. you're an adult just keep safe ^__^ i never slept round my bf's until after a few dates
^i (kinda) have to stay at his place, i dont plan to tell my family XDDD too risky? LOL i will look at it on the bright side haha
^ what they don't know don't hurt tbh but depends how open your family are with the whole "I'm staying round a boy's house" issue I mean my parents had a problem with me as I was the oldest and my little sister never had this problem lol
^ nah.. CS gas that shit... so much more fun and gives you the excuse to run out before you get affected by that nasty stuff too!
What is so interesting about an house??? Do you find your house interesting?, I certainly don't. Unless he wants to show you his bed. If you don't have the intention to do some r-rated stuff. Just make it clear. (though that would be akward, saying "dont rape me"). I think you already got a gasp of what he might thinking. And you already decided you dont want to do any r-rated stuff, but WHAT if he makes a MOVE (omgash), seems to be the question. Anyways, maybe he wants to get closer and comfty with you and gets the hint you want to take it slow.
