Here is the current situation: The girl doesn't like me to watch porn materbate or like having little or any sex at all She doesn't like me feeling up upon her sometimes when we are hugging or kissing. This includes anywhere of her body! She just wants quick kiss and a hugs that's it. We been together for about 5-6 months already! Please give some suggestions that might be helpful Thanks
Yes.. you are too controlling.. trying to make her into your little sex fantasy when that is who she is not. At least someone has some integrity in the relationship.
While Texas Hold 'em may be a sound strategy in Poker, with a GF that doesn't put out, one begins to wonder what is the difference between Ma Thumb and her daughters versus a "Girlfriend." Answer? Ma Thumb and her daughters is a lot cheaper. So, one should ask one's self why is one even bothering to be in a relationship that is obviously frustrating and not, er... meeting one's needs. That said, every long term relationship I ever had always got horizontal from the get go. I didn't tolerate woman who didn't know what they want. This approach avoidance shit (as in "you can give me a hug but you can't fuck me")? The heck with that; I would have replied "...and you can take a hike." Further, in what is his very first post in PA, the OP laments that he can't get laid. Frankly, this is something that is being very bothersome to him. My suggestion to the OP is, time to move on.
The first question that comes to mind is how old are you and are you and your gf Asian. If you're still a teen or younger, then you shouldn't rush into it. If ya'll Asian, then the gf is almost always more conservative than those Western sluts. Being in a relationship doesn't mean SEX. If you're looking for instant gratification, then you shouldn't date at all. Just go for those NSA one nighter; why bother wasting your time and money. Asian gals that I had dated were all very conservative and didn't take the relationship to the next level until we both felt it was comfortable and right. Come on, you don't want another easy slut as a girlfriend or potential mate, do you? The gals aren't dumb either. You can't rush into sex if you're in a SERIOUS relationship. On that, the relationship shouldn't even be built on or around sex. You gotta respect your gf and slow down a bit to match her pace. If you can't do that, then the best solution is to move on like the others said already. As to why she doesn't want you masturbate or whatever pornographic shit; no one wants a pervert for a boyfriend.
wuahahaha....lol @ this thread! How old are u dude? I doubt this is even a serious Q but anyhow... if there's anyone who needs advice on this: nothing more annoying that a bf who keeps pushing u into doing shit u dont want to! u just gotta ask urself if u respect her enough to be patient.... if she's ready she'll take initiative as she obviously knows u want to get physical with her.... for a short solution ask her: "U gonna put out anytime soon woman"?" N then decide from there on!
look imma lay it all down homie, it seems u didn't know her for a long time.. at most it was like 1-3 months of getting 2 know each other before going out in ur 5-6 months ... now i dunno what type of girl she is, cause her not wanting sex has a lot of meaning and reasons... love and sex is one in the same... if you are having sex but not in love, then that is no different from porn-stars... what is sex if you are the only one enjoying and if she isn't? figure out what you want outta your relationship and decide what you wanna do from there... what she doesn't want and want, you should respect that... seriously
I think you're lucky having her in your life. If you're happy together just don't think about those stuff.
one other thing you should also maybe slow things downs its only been 5-6 months, maybe having sex or doing more sexual things are more important to her give it time it will come ?
