So if a girl decides to go back with a guy out of pity and he shows signs of a controlling freak. But deep inside she has another guy in her mind while her family is forcing her to get back with the other guy. What do you guys think?
I think girls like these, they like to be with guys that are in control or treat them poorly. I will never understand why. Girls that obviously deserve better but choose to sit through this torture is beyond me
bu,the gal was just waiting for the last moment to dump the guy if the guy kept on treating her like shit. it's just like gals like to dream.they always expect u to change oneday, but if u really wont, then it's done w/ the relationship.
Well heres my dilemma. This girl loves me and stuff but the thing is that her family is forcing her to be with her ex-fiance because they been through alot together. However, she doesnt want to but deep inside she loves him. She tried to forget about me but she couldnt and had to stick with her decision cause of her family. Now I am getting involved with it cause she cant make up her mind. She wants to see me every single day and talk to me while the other guy is forcing her to get back with him, buying stuff for her and being super clingy with her. Thats why i wanted to know if she will explode from this. It seems like she has already moved on with me but the time they spent together which I understand is longer than what we had (having me in her mind every single day). I told her if you want me to disappear from you to make it easier for you to forget about me then I will do it but all she says is I dont know... The guy left her already once by broken off the engagement due to a mid life crisis. I can see he can do it again. Any suggestions?
nevermind her exploding.. I'm surprised you haven't exploded! Tell her to leave you the hell alone.. and move on from her. If she needs her parents to make decisions for her and she still thinks about the guy.. shes not worth your time
i could not agree more i guess nice guys do really finish last... why not drop the bad guy, and pick up a nice sweetie hmm?
Well its like homoloto said. The girl wishes to be the reason why the guy will change. She's hoping that he will see what he's doing to her and that he'll change for the better. Most guys are just stubborn and wont do it anyway. If they can get away with treating a girl poorly, they would and vice versa. Not saying that all guys will disrespect a girl, the asshole ones I mean.
if she really likes u then whats there to think about?? she should just tell him to get outta her life... shes taking the easy way out by not making a decision (yet).... n yeah, girls love douchebags...n we ask for all the drams sometimes by not taking the easy way out.... cant say i didnt use to like the bastards more than nice guys... no good!! we probably do it for the challenge?
If she's waiting around.. then you're NOT THE ONLY ONE she's thinkin' about. that why you're a teacher.. cause you wanna punish those bad boys huh? :naughty:
i would say for most gals ,family is really important. their parents gave them a lot to raise them up,no matter mentally or physically. it's hard for a traditional chinese girl to abandon her parents. Meanwhile, gals are more emotional,going through this kinda conflicts is hard to decide.i would say the gal u met here probably doesnt know what she really wants. u should tell her, u want her and u can give her the happiness she wants, also tell her, u dont want her to feel puzzled, pick u up rather than her ex- if u really love her and think u would be qualified to be w/ her,get ur courage ,go to her, show her what u can bring to her for u 2's future, and make her choose u. i think if u posted this here that means u loved her too, otherwises u wont have to feel puzzled abt this.Then think about it urself,do u want to be w/ her forever?do u love her that much?do u like to put ur efforts to get her?do u know how much u r gonna suffer if u two together?think about it all over, and make ur decision. For people who said love should be like this, or dump her rite away blah bla bla for delicated tone, i would say if there is a real standard of ur love then maybe u should think about it if it is real love or not.
get outta the drama while you can.. her parents don;t like you and they obviously don't give a shit about the guy breaking an engagement with her. They're still siding with the guy like its not a problem. Forcing her to get back with the guy? is he rich or do they just hate that you much? lol
