hi everyone.. i know it is long but please go through it...u may change my life.. these are my emotions so words just poured in... hope you all will understand........and help me out.... i am new here, i read about the love triangle. i am also stuck in it, and i am the third one.. i did not get to know about his GF for long,he said he did not have a gf and by the time i knew abt it i was in love with him... when i came to know about it, he cried saying their relation is not working..cried a lot,, so i decided to stay with him,, he says never in his life he has the joy which i gave him, when they continue talking because he says she cries a lot,, i decided to call up the girl and ask her to leave him, then i found the lies he said to me and to her, he says he can't put an end to that relationship just because she cries a lot..he says he lied because he did not want to loose me. i told him either to be with her or with me, he then decided to be with me, called up the girl and put an end to it, but since they had 3 years relationship, the girl was not ready to leave, he stayed for long without talking to her,he did not keep a cell phone for long,because he knew what will happen if he has one, he didn't talk to his parents, to his friends, to her. but deep inside he felt guilty for betraying her. still he moved on, his mother knew about their relationship,so the girl called her up and cried. her mom then called him up on one of his friend's number saying he has changed a lot ever since he met me, and told him not to leave since she may die, her mom was also crying, she told him she will even not finance him.... i told him to be with her again, he did, under a lot of pressure from his family and also because of the guilt he has inside.. i did not wanted to be a trouble for all... later i realized i can't stay like this with him, so i asked him that we all will be friends so that neither she feels as a looser nor i. but he said that would make everything worse, his mom cries for her because she cries on phone when she calls her up..the girl is in some other place but we are in same university and staying in hostel away from home. , i would have left him go if we were not together, we meet everyday, eat together everyday, he says he loves me a lot and wishes only he would not have met her.. he says he himself is stuck, we cry a lot, even today,.. i told him i suffer everyday, he too cries for the wrong he has done,he says he too is not happy withwhat is going on.. but he feels their is no way out.. i do see love in his eyes, he carries my heavier bag and will let me carry his lighter one, he comes to take me if i stay late at my friends place, he will not eat until we are together and i do the same for him,,we are so much emotionally attached,, when i tell him the pain i am suffering, he will beat himself up, he hits his head with stone and says it is all his fault..he says he can't leave me also after our relation has come this far (it has been 7 months, never a day we stayed without talking to each other) i am not able to decide, he is the first love of my life,it is really hard to forget him, when he says he forgets the world when he is with me, he has never enjoyed his life the way he is with me.. but he also feels there is something which connects him with her, i think the girl also loves him..they do talk now . i feels like staying with him no matter what giving him joy, but it pains when i remember what is going on... i don't know what to do.. my heart pains.. please help me...
jersey shore??? this guy seems like he should be in the show...crying, showing emotion, having 2 girlfriends, injuring himself..... if you really want the best for him then just leave him and move to another place so he doesn't have to make the decision about being with your or her since she will not be the one leaving him. Im sure you will find someone else after you moved on and will probably be more happy. If you really want to and can accept him having 2 girlfriends or being able to wait for them to break up then stay with him.
keep away from this for a while, let him think about it, and take ur time too. adter a while, all of u will know.
i tried leaving him... m still trying .. it's killing me inside.. i don't know what to do.... PLZ PLZ HELP ME PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
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The guy should have never rocked 2 boats to begin with. He cheated on the other girl. And he lied to you at the beginning. If you're feeling stressed from this relationship ... Then it's not worth it.
I think it's best to give all you guys a break time, a calming period. Without your and her influence, that lets your guy have time to himself to decide on what he wants and who he wants to be with. Can't be forced.
Yeah.....if he's crying and saying he's hurting himself because you are sad, or when she is sad...well he's either selfish or undecisive. And later on in the future thats a trait youll have to deal with all over. TBH m stuck in one now, she tells me she's had the time of her life and just so happy to have me around, then turn around and treats me like crap. She doesnt like me though so m just gonna play it by whatever happens. But yeah if you just keep thinking about it it'll just hurt more and more. I think you need to just move on and find another interest.....it'll take time but yeah no point dragging it. Srly, calling his mom saying she's gonna die? Thats a complete drama queen.....just let them live their lives because itll just go on and on. And if he can't let go of her after they broke up, he's just not worth the time, cuz it might just come back and you know the drilll.....
