Marriage, like any other relationship needs work .. gotta communicate and compromise to get things resolved. What happen when there are just more and more problems than answers? Should two people continue to stay together just because of a promise, a child, or whatever?? Can't say the love is gone but arguments and arguments everyday turn even the best loving couple to anger, frustration, and annoyance. Is divorce the only solution? After all, staying as it would only create more mental and emotional distress. What do ya'll think??
hard to say...but id say try to solve problems before think about leaving each other. its a pity to leave :(
i'm with kay on this one, but it's hard to say without knowing your situation. i can't imagine what you're going through, but best of luck with whatever you decide to do. definitely think your final decision through though!
mebe its just a rough patch..??..talk/work it out...?? seems a bit fast doesnt it...a few arguments and divorce is the answer..?.. but guess it does depend how you've been feeling this way etc..?
if you've both tried to overcome this hurdle and it's not working then get a divorce. But remember, every relationship has it's hurdles and problems. if you can look at yourself in the mirror and can say that you've tried your best to make it work then if divorce is the decision you make then at least you wont have regrets. I've been there and I've had my bags packed and was one foot out the door. in the end, i gave it one last chance. i can't say that i sometimes don't regret not leaving the marriage but at the same time i know my husband has put a huge amount of effort into changing things. i usually tell myself, "he didn't cheat on me or hit me. it's a little stupid to leave him over stupid things"
It's easy to work things out when only two people are involved; however, with the in-laws and the kid .. it's so much more difficult and better off cutting things clean before the relationship gets worst. It's not about regret but what's best for the situation. Is divorce the answer? If the other half gives the nod, that's a sign one or the other is ready and willing to move on. There's no point of holding back when the heart is not there anymore. Love is still there but has changed to another type .. friendship or close friend .. not the couple passionate love like before.
Talk it over. Sometimes a third party be able to help ... Especially when one person is not listening because of anger. Divorce is just an easy way out.
First think about why you guys are together in the first place, and now theres a problem between you two, try solve it. Try to distinguish who has changed and what you can do about it. I personally think divorce should be your last resort.
I find it somehow hilarious on the fact that many people think of "love" as being the "perfect thing". Sure, love is the "best" at first and as time passes by. But, when the first problem showed up, oops. Fixed. Then more "problems". Partially fixed. How many sacrifices can one make for love? How many times can one remind him/herself how they love each other. Remember, we are human beings. We can love and we can argue. They are two different things.
if there is a child you must stay. Never want a child to grow up with with mother or father. Its your choice to bring the kid to the world, you have to bear the burden. If you commit a crime you have to pay for it. you can not run away from it
