Cheating

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by zhouxianwen, Jan 15, 2012.

  1. zhouxianwen

    zhouxianwen Well-Known Member

    105
    241
    0
    is it cheating when you have a boyfriend (long term relationship) but you fantasy sex with other guys??

    lol random question but justt wondering!
     
  2. lilmack0808

    lilmack0808 Active Member

    37
    6
    0
    I don't think so but it depends.
    If your having a fantasy with like your bf's buddies then I think that's a little closer toward cheating but not totally. If your thinking about super hot male hollywood stars then no.
     
  3. turbobenx

    turbobenx .........

    4,373
    402
    76
    nah, that's not cheating....it's only cheating if it's done......
     
  4. t20lau

    t20lau Well-Known Member

    79
    234
    0
    There's going to be many many opinions on this one! Cause everyone is differnet...

    I'd go with its not cheating until you act upon your fantasy!
     
  5. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    u're not gonna get convicted when u fantasize about stealing.....
     
  6. Bulla

    Bulla Well-Known Member

    1,447
    61
    0
    Not physical cheating.

    But if I knew my GF (if I had a GF atm) was fantasizing about other guys then the relationship would be over. Everything we do begins in the mind.
     
  7. rax_7

    rax_7 Well-Known Member

    78
    31
    0
    nah, it's called Whore.
     
  8. Hartia

    Hartia Well-Known Member

    1,326
    331
    199
    Lol....if she does, want a threesome, then tell her you're open to it and make sure it's another girl, not another guy....
     
  9. 1123581220

    1123581220 Well-Known Member

    56
    31
    0
    ^unless you're bi
     
  10. Vend

    Vend Well-Known Member

    130
    41
    0
    As long as it's in your MIND, then it's not cheating. When you take ACTION, then you are cheating. Question is... Will just "thinking" about it leads to action(s)?
     
  11. fookzster

    fookzster Member

    11
    1
    0
  12. surplusletterbox

    surplusletterbox Well-Known Member

    318
    53
    1
    Does not matter whether it is cheating or whatever you call it. The critical point is what is the act is and how it is perceived or received and the possible and (subsequently) actual impact it will have.
     
  13. 5ugarh1gh

    5ugarh1gh New Member

    1
    26
    0
    i wouldn't consider it cheating but if you fantasize about other guys when you have already have a boyfriend then you shouldn't be in that relationship in the first place.
     
  14. sfvisalaw

    sfvisalaw Member

    7
    1
    0
    Remember its not cheating until you get caught. Jk!! Relationships usually starts from physical attraction and moves on to mental attraction. When you are having physically/mentally attraction about others then that's consider borderline cheating.
     
  15. huycha04

    huycha04 Well-Known Member

    83
    31
    1
    yes it is, you are not loyal to him or her.
     
  16. gogogo2000

    gogogo2000 Well-Known Member

    131
    44
    0
    cheating is on all leevels and its all wrong if your in a relationship then u r loyal forever on all levels be strong will power
     
  17. Babulu

    Babulu Member

    23
    1
    0
    This is very subjective to people. If both of you are long term in relationship and are looking to get married, then the answer would be yes. However, if one of them treated this relationship the other way around, then the answer would be no.
     
  18. HendyZero2

    HendyZero2 Member

    11
    1
    0
    No one is perfect. Cheating is cheating. I love my girl but I do like to look sometimes. I can say it is wrong to think and act on it. I don't like what I do but again, no one is perfect.
     
  19. chub1688

    chub1688 Member

    9
    1
    0
    I guess not. It's just a thought, but hopefully is not like a every day thing.
     
  20. doraemik

    doraemik Active Member

    29
    1
    0
    it is just some psychological stuff going on in the mind... not just women but men do too... it is normal...we all have our secrets...those fantasy sexy stuff just make women become more women... more attractive....