So Evelyn and I have been going out for nearly 3 years. I used to be a very jealous boyfriend (probably the first 6 months of our relationship), but then she made me realize its stupid to be angry at her guy friends. With that being said, I started to encourage her for the last 2 years, to go meet people, go chill and experience new things. Ironically, she started being super jealous at me for talking to girls, that are just friends. She was like this for the last 2 years of our relationship while I constantly encouraging her to meet guys and girls. Recently, 3 months ago when we broke up, I found out while we were together she was talking to this other guy (a guy friend). Apparently now they're together... What really frustrates me, is the fact that she changed me to try to be a better boyfriend, and at the same time I get knocked in the face cuz she goes out and actually talks and gets interested in some other guy... Now she's with that guy, we haven't really talked since... Do you guys think its okay to be protective, in this context? I mean look at what happend? What do you guys suggest if I do find another girlfriend? Should I be protective? Or keep encouraging her to be a social butterfly?
hahaha... this is where women get soooooooo complicated... when a man tells a woman to go out and meet people... he really mean it... when a man tells a woman that she's her jealousy is too much to take... he really mean it... but women r not like that... usually when a woman tells u that u r too protective and u should trust her with her guy fds they don't really mean trust her 100%... wot they really mean is... "awww... my guy's worried abt losing me... how sweet..." and wot they really want is b protective to show that u care... but at the same time let them hangout with their guy friends... u encouraged her to meet new people... i know ur sincere and stuff... but ur woman probably thought u didn't care abt her... it doesn't bother u that she's surrounded by guys and ur not afraid of losing her... she's not getting enough attention...
Whoa is your girll.... babesteroxox33 -lol. Basically.. your girl found another guy more suitable for her... and left you... Whether it's three years or ten years... if she finds a guy better than you of course she's gonna leave you. I mean overprotective or not... if she ain't feelin' it nothing is gonna make her wanna stay with you. She leaves.. you move on... simple as that...
yup... that's a simpler way of saying it... basically a lot of women goes to look for more suitable guys when they feel they r not being loved... and it's extremely hard for a guy to balance between giving her too much attention and not enough attention...
if she gonna fly then she's gonna fly... can't trap her in the cage... just gotta set her free and hope she'll return home.
well... if u can't make her happy then i guess it's only fair that she flies to someone who can... dw... i'm sure u'll find someone that won't fly so ealisy jtang...
