-_- why am I so scared of talking to the girls I like?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by MadeinChina, Jul 4, 2007.

  1. MadeinChina

    MadeinChina Well-Known Member

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    @_@ I have friends that are girls, i can talk to them fine and laugh and all that. But when it comes to girls that I like, i'm speechless, retarded about things.I become stiff and just stand there. Try to say something to the girl, but the words just won't come out. at this rate, I art doomed, either that or I will turn gay or something. =_= *sigh* well time for me to sleep on this.
     
  2. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    judging by your avatar you're already well on your way to full blown homosexuality anyway
     
  3. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    I thought you already are... judging from ur avatar and sig... lol


    Anyway, I think it's normal for some of us to feel tongue-tied and shy when it comes to talking to those we fancy... -sweat
     
  4. Loreen66

    Loreen66 Well-Known Member

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    I thought Hard Gay was straight because he did got married to (forgot her name) XD
    Anyway, Things takes time, just engage in a small conversation with her and see how it goes.
     
  5. so which part of u becomes stiff?? only joking -tongue2


    it's normal... just build up ur confidence n u'll b fine...
     
  6. MadeinChina

    MadeinChina Well-Known Member

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    what the... my avatar sends a message clearly states that I'm straight as an arrow.
     
  7. subaru3169

    subaru3169 Well-Known Member

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    you need more confidence lor.. i think we cover this already in some other thread you make before.. but since you already have female friends, that is good start la.. just keep practice and move to try to talk to other ppl
     
  8. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Hahaha that's not what crosses my mind.
     
  9. subaru3169

    subaru3169 Well-Known Member

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    are you try to tempt him with your own avatar?? lol
     
  10. MadeinChina

    MadeinChina Well-Known Member

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    I seek confidence, but I don't know how to get it o_o. I back out every time when I try to boost it up. Maybe... if I show girls my hairy arms.... it might woo them.
     
  11. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Want an apple? -lol

    -er Not sure if it's a good idea.
     
  12. MadeinChina

    MadeinChina Well-Known Member

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    I heard from somebody that girls love manly man. Hairy, Burping, Reckless type. And it's like that over here where I see a lot of girls were woo'ed by men like that. I don't really burp, but I do have one hairy arm.
     
  13. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    lol im not turned on at all by your avatar brain... that 3D rendering was definitely done in some cheap ass program by some american nerd. the Japanese do it better
     
  14. Loreen66

    Loreen66 Well-Known Member

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    Didn't you mentioned somewhere in another thread, you've dated around 30 something girls. So how did you approach them anyway?-unsure
     
  15. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    i thought he was the guy who said he dated 130 girls actually

    which, if he is 20 means he had roughly 7 girlfriends a year since he was 1 year old
     
  16. MadeinChina

    MadeinChina Well-Known Member

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    no....30 some attempts.

    of course, you all know the success rate, if it was that good.... then I won't be bitching about this lol
     
  17. subaru3169

    subaru3169 Well-Known Member

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    give me a steak and we'll talk haha

    many women will know if you try to show off something, either your physique or whatever material.. from my experience, is not really a good idea.. is show you try too hard.. just be yourself lor, but just get more confidence.. simple
     
  18. subaru3169

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    so how many girls can you actually say were your gf??
     
  19. MadeinChina

    MadeinChina Well-Known Member

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    If I dated 130 girls, that'd be the whole population over here.
     
  20. MadeinChina

    MadeinChina Well-Known Member

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    i was fat, teh only girls that was interested in even talkin to me was to get free meals, pay for their drinks and such. Nothing emotional