Well, i've been liking this guy for a long time, and well. I'm in kind of a huge problem. Since his GF went on holiday to malysia for a month or 4, he began working at our place. And well, we've been talking and stuff, and it kinda extended that we've been dating. His gf returned yesterday, and i feel bad about having dated him. As i don't know what do, what would you guys do? Please note that in all the text messages, he's been saying that he would really like to have a relationship with me. Since his gf is kinda fierce, he also wants to break up with her. But due all these circumstances, it makes me feel bad to get a relationship with him...
ahhu should'nt be datin a guy that already got a gf in the 1st place no matter how much u like this guy it just make you the 3rd person in the relationship but i think you should just 4get about him for awhile it may be hard but u goto be strong and learn to control your feelins and do u know the reason why he want to break up with his gf ??? is it coz of you he want to break up with her ?? or is there another reason ? if he is to break up with his gf becoz of you ? what make u think he won't chat to other girls and break up with u ?
Well, since i met her on a party and such. Well, it's just that, he already thought of quitting his relationship he has now. and he wants to move on, like well. he couldn't explain it to me. I'm soooooooooo confuuuuuuused
i think age has a lot to do with this.... you do whatever it takes to make urself happy! you know what i mean? cant please everyone around ya...
a lot of people bash people like me. But they should wait till their time has come. Then we will have our revenge =O
a lot of ppl say i shouldnt do what im doing now w/ my thread...a few topics below but only you know better because ur around the situation most of the time... take advice here as if its like a grain of salt...
who cares what other people think, just make your own decisions and hopefully have some fun. If you make some dumb ones, then atleast you'll learn from em. If you like the dude, tell him to ditch his ho and get wit chu.
Quit while you are ahead of the game. If he can be two timing now, he can do so with you later. BUT if you feel that you are emotionally strong to accept him ditching you later and want some pleasure now, go ahead n get with him
OUCH . i kinda think u shud wait like a month or 2 before .. getting into a serious relationship . but dating .. is ok jus no kisses or cudlles unltil a month .
hey ive heared this story of someone! dont i know you?!?! nah jks, but if he really likes you, he would dump his GF and go with you so yea..
^agree with michy.... and partially with wind... whatever he does to her... he can do to u too... of course u can go n do whatever makes u happy... but be aware of the fact that hes been sorta cheating on his gf and if ud have a relationship with him n things would go bad... he might start off something else instead of talking about it with u
Agree with boththese points, i mean nothing is worse than someone saying they want to do something but they don't actually do it because of certain "excuses". i mean if he's been saying he wants to break up with his gf then he should have done, but instead i bet it's just because 1. he doesnt want to "hurt" her feelings, 2. he's just saying it because he likes you and wants to give you "hope" and 3. he's a player. and if u felt guilty then why did you date him in the first place? knowing full well that he had a gf.. but what do you mean a date? did u guys kiss or anything more? if his feelings are true towards you then i hope he will get the guts to break it off with his current gf but don't put all your hope into him
These guys, just don't he cheated his gf, he can cheat with you too...but if you still want to go ahead, thats your choice. But if you're gold digging Thats one heck of a different story
flaming has a really good point there... but if you feel theres something there, and he really does want to break up with his gf... go for it i say. just make sure you guys wait a while before dating after he breaks up with her otherwise there will be a bigger problem!
@ FLAMING N CARMEN It does say a lot about his personality doesnt it??? hes creeping around... if hes an honest person he would've broken up with his gf before hed date another chick... i know ppl can fall outta love....n theres nothing wrong with that...but just be honest... he has been two timing ever since he started dating harunah....so basically thats cheating ok he was unhappy n wanted to break up with her before... so...what does that mean he needed someone else to come along before he could do it? isnt that lame? great way to start a relationship.... @ carmen_ n besides... if you've read what the OP said... they are already dating -sleep
