My boyfriend was dumped by his ex for 3 years and she happens to be my friend. However, she dumped him when she moved back to Japan. And now my boyfriend and I have dated for about half a year but he constantly asked me what would I do if his ex comes back and wants him back. Or would I be scared if she comes back. What does he mean by that? I still feel like he still loves her more than me since they were together for 3 years compare to our half a year. Should I break up with him before i get hurt?
I think he wants to know if you'll fight for him. Don't let him feel that special, I mean what if your ex came back and wanted you back, will he be scared? The best way to know is to ask him
Shouldn't it be the other way?It should have been you asking him...As he asked you,i think it's very strange and he still has feelings for her.You have to ask him about his true feelings first,whether he wants to return to his ex or not...
i personally think just distant yourself from him for a while and see who he will go for you or your friend.. if you are that special he will stick with you no matter what.. but by the sounds of things that he keeps asking you about his ex.. i would just go for someone else coz he will end up hurting you when she comes bk into his life
^ sometimes its hard for someone to leave someone that they have dated for a while and sitll ahve feelings.. hence distant to let her realise that she can get a better fish
the guy is clearly just testing you. If you say you will fight for him then its good for his ego and he will be like, "feels good man". If you say you'll let him do whatever he wants then he can treat your relationship as casually as he wants. There really is no good answer to this question, and your boyfriend is a douche for asking you it. You should be the one quizzing him on what he would do if she came back. Personally though, i hate dealing in hypotheticals. When a girl asks me 'what if' my answer is usually 'i dont know, i'll deal with it when it comes'.
I won't understand that since I've never been ina relation headbang2 but still the fact is right there any doubt, KILL IT
Where is the communication? Obviously, there is a lack of communication in your relationship. Do not distance yourself away from him, just ask him why the hell is he asking you these questions!!! Is he trying to make you jealous, or is he clearly hinting you that he still loves her? I don't believe in the way he's treating you...he should know what to ask and what not to ask. You should punish him for that!
I agree with vangirl... Just ask him WHY he is asking that question. If it's just because of his ego, I will be really irritated if I were you. And in the other case, if he really still have feelings for her, he should make his choice, it's no point to stick together if his heart is somewhere else. Anywayszz... He shouldn't ask that question so many times =.=
Seriously why would he say something like that. Either he does not really like you are you are just taking his ex's place til she comes back or he is teasing you. Personally I think he is full of himself and is not a keeper. Just dump and then tell him she never left, she dumped you cos you were too big-headed and you are gonna dump him because he is so full of himself.
