A troublesome family

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by joker5251, Mar 22, 2008.

  1. joker5251

    joker5251 New Member

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    Well I been dating with my girlfriend for 2 years now .. but we don't really get to go out much .. All tis time when we try to go out secretly , her cell phone will rang and both her bro , mom and dad will call her and request her to come back home. I wonder if anyone of you have faced this issues before ??
     
  2. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    yeah, ask her to introduce you to her family and you can do the same for her.

    then you'll have no problems.
     
  3. dave709394

    dave709394 Well-Known Member

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    Sounds like a normal. Your girlfriend's family is prob very protective of her, they prob know that you 2 have been dating. Like fearless said try and introduce yourself to her family that should resolve your problem.
    Just a side note is that first impression is very important, so try and make an effort.
     
  4. tiffer858

    tiffer858 Well-Known Member

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    yup protective families. probably should meet the parents to see where you stand if they like you are not and it they don't now you noe why they are calling her but if they do like probably just worried or protective
     
  5. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    How old are both of u?
     
  6. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    impress her father, if he is impress then it is most likely the whole family won't intervene with your relationship.
     
  7. Raymond_Cheung

    Raymond_Cheung Well-Known Member

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    Huh? You are dating your gf for two years but you still not met her parents? What is the problem? If she does not want to introduce you to her parents then I think situation is quite bad for you.
     
  8. habib718

    habib718 Active Member

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    2 years?? and you guys dont go out much? and you never met her parents .. sounds fishy
    i dont know what kind of relationship you guys are in....
     
  9. volkly

    volkly Well-Known Member

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    it does sound like a strange relationship, or maybe the girls family is against her dating so thats why she kept it a secret and if she is out, they're worry about her. Nothing u can do for the time being but be patience.
     
  10. iris

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    My friend was in the same position. He use to sneak around with his girlfriend all the time, and even into the house late at night. Her mother didn't want her dating. I think he eventually talked to her mom (single parent house-hold I believe) and told her what's up. Her mother accepted it and they've been together ever since.

    His gf has a protective mother, seems like the case with your gf.
     
  11. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    haha...-lol

    the parents dont know she has a bf...so they think she is out messing with the bad ppl ...so they call her to go home...could help if they know who her friends are or her boyfriend is,,,,

    or ring the doorbell and talk to the dad...like, I have been doing ur daughter secretly -whistle
     
  12. lol... yea best way is to make a good impression on the parents, lmfao don't get caught doing things -whistle
     
  13. anti

    anti Well-Known Member

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    agreeeed what everyoen said :nono:
     
  14. aznbabie51o

    aznbabie51o Active Member

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    usually the famly are protective towards the *girl* in the family epecially if there are brothers in the house too. Its quite understandable that they are over protective and as for you, i think the best way to meet the parents just like what everyone else said. Make sure your first impression is good, dont dress gangsta or ghetto with saggy pants etc. You are trying to impress the family so they know that you are trustworthy. Good luck to your relationship :)
     
  15. mingming2006

    mingming2006 Well-Known Member

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    arrange on a dinner wit her fam 2 introduce urself to them...n yea - 1st impressions count...