A movie classic "Bao Giò Cho Đến Tháng Mười" "When the Tenth Month Comes" about loss. In Black and White, I managed to track down the English, French, German and Spanish subtitles so two generations , old and young, may watch this for overseas European and North American Vietnamese/Chinese. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0118148/combined Locate this under "movies", then "other asian movies".
I watched this movie last week, it's really a good movie, link online "Bao Giờ Cho Đến Tháng Mười" is here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tVs5UdFBitU
And one more great movie about war in Vietnam: Áo Lụa Hà Đông (The White Silk Dress). If you want to know more about Vietnam war, you can't skip this movie. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fEtDXoqfYrY