Advice?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by the_doctor, Jan 27, 2011.

  1. the_doctor

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    i just started college very recently, and there's this girl in the same class as me, who's from outstation. i've already befriended her and we talk quite often. but somehow, i got a feeling that she's only treating me as a normal friend. i've tried my best to give her hints that i like her, but she always thinks that i'm just kidding. i don't want to express my feelings to her yet, as i'm afraid that then we might not be able to be friends anymore. so, what should i do to know if she likes me or not, to make her know that i like her and to not scare her away? advice please
     
    #1 the_doctor, Jan 27, 2011
  2. brown_bear

    brown_bear ☆‧° ☆﹒﹒‧ ☆ ﹒﹒‧☆‧° ☆

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    ermm...try telling her on valentines day...coz thas rolling up soonies =D

    so mebe...plan a meal with her...and tell her on her way home..??..
     
    #2 brown_bear, Jan 27, 2011
  3. Flames

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    Ladies and Gentlemen, the_doctor is in!
     
    #3 Flames, Jan 27, 2011
  4. peppermint

    peppermint Well-Known Member

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    the_doctor, your username is very contradicting.....are you sure you need advice from us?
     
    #4 peppermint, Jan 27, 2011
  5. Tony

    Tony Well-Known Member

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    She probably doesn't like you.
     
    #5 Tony, Jan 28, 2011
  6. zxorated

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    the girl got to be playing dumb with u if she doesn't feel the vibe coming from you that you are interested. ur best bet is to do something out of the ordinary and make her go wow he's charming, like singing, dancing, etc. else u'll forever be stuck on that friends type or even worse a back up.
     
    #6 zxorated, Jan 28, 2011
  7. [mJ9]

    [mJ9] Well-Known Member

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    Give it a shot,the only thing you're going to lose if she doesn't feel the same is your friendship.
    If you don't want to lose the friendship,then just watch her be with another guy,be there for her when she got a fight with her future bf..
    ur choice
     
    #7 [mJ9], Jan 29, 2011
  8. the_doctor

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    i think that she notices it already. and she's really warming up to me now
    alright, i'll act on valentine's day :D
     
    #8 the_doctor, Jan 29, 2011