A woman’s desire is to be able to find an ideal destination – a man who loves and cares for her. For Aimee Chan (陳茵媺), the concept of love is to simply go with the flow. Currently in a sweet relationship with Moses Chan (陳豪), did Aimee already find her Mr. Right? “The relationship between people is very intriguing. There needs to be coordinated timing. When I was young, I imagined getting into a relationship after my studies, and then experiencing marriage and having children, creating a family of my own. But reality isn’t as perfect as imagination, because we’re not Cinderella who has a pair of glass slippers. There are always so many factors involved in a relationship, and people’s personalities are so complex. Perspectives change as time pass.” Aimee wishes everything to be natural, and as long as everyone is peaceful and happy, things will turn out fine. After meeting the right person, it is important to cherish one another. Speaking of Moses, Aimee said, “Fortunately, our personalities are very similar. We often think the same way, and so little problems don’t become big ones. It is easy for us to get along, and arguments are rare. But it’s the same to whomever I’m trying to get to know better. Patience and respect is the most important.” Asked if she will design her own marriage in the future, Aimee smiled and replied, “I did think of preparing myself before, but after seeing so many good friends go through the process, I think I won’t end up doing so since it’s too complicated. It doesn’t matter where the marriage is held, because the most important thing is having the groom with me at that moment.” The perfect wedding for Aimee would be a mix of a Chinese traditional wedding and a western style wedding. Since marriage is a big event in a woman’s life, she does not want it to be too simple with just the signing of the wedding contract. Having a ceremony would make it more memorable. In terms of wedding gowns, Aimee wants something that is not overly fashionable. She believes the gown’s cutting is very important, and can easily bring upon different tastes. Aimee loves classical vintage looks, and hopes her gown will feature the style. “The best would be to find a unique combination of materials. For example, the lace on my wedding gown can be from a tablecloth or curtain some years ago. I think vintage things have their own lives and stories. It’ll be like gathering friends from different places so the whole thing becomes more unique. There is very little chance that the same product will be made again with the same resources.” Creds: Weddinghk
