Anyone ever kinda like made a promise to do somethin' for your friend... and like end up having to turn them down....?? Really bad or no big deal??
have you ever done it? cuz if you do, i still won't consider YOU as a bad friend. since your nice in this forum. if in real life, i don't know. but for me, i don't think i turn anyone down after making a promise, unless if i lied.
i turn friends down sometimes..its ok tho..cause i don't mean to...just that something else pops up...well ppl ditched me b4 and turned me down i think..so it evens out
yea... I am nice... dammit.. but ahh I dunno... So I like kinda haven't really seen them for awhile. And umm... couple days ago.. they asked me to go to this thing with them. And they made me promise to go... but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have liked goin' to the thing... so I had to turn them down. And they keep saying that I had promised... so yea... am I the bad guy here??
you don't have to worry about those. cuz some of my friends force me to promise also, but i never went. it happens all the times, or actually, most of the times. i don't seem bother about it afterwards, and then by the next day they decided to talk to me again. i don't think your a bad friend, if your a bad friend. then that makes me and even worse friend. but usually, i always have an excuse for not going. so then i got out of their way. well... it's not my problem that i didn't like it. it's their fault for forcing to promise. -innocent2
yea... but damn.. Why is it always hard to turn down the female friends... =/. If it was just some guy friend... yea i'd probably be like ok screw you.. i'm takin a nap -lol. But ahh... why are girls always so good at making you feel like the bad guy -lol
Yea i agree... i hate it when girls ask me to do stuff, i always get suckered into doing it... even the ugly chicks have that power :( and i guess breaking a promise isnt overly bad as long as you know the boundaries like nothing that will get your frn into TOO much trouble
Look, if someone was a "bad" friend, they wouldn't break a promise and then sit at home regretting/feeling guilty about it. It's okay to break minor promises as long as you don't do it all the time... but my question is, did you at least offer an explanation as to why you didn't show up? If you didn't then I'd say you're more irresponsible than anything else. That's the thing with guys... if you promise a girl that you're going to do something, you HAVE TO do it. If you're not going to do it then don't make any promises altogether. You have to be a man of your word! Now you've just given those girls the impression that you're an undependable guy. Which might be pretty bad if you actually happen to like one of the girls in the group. But, what was this horrible "thing" they invited you to anyway? Male strip club? -lol
lol I think the girls of PA are gettin' freakier than ever... no not a male strip club. And it was kinda like a Pressured Promise... wha was I supposed to do...
