When i go out to bars or clubs and I see a guy that I think is my type I will just go up to them and talk to them (depend on how drunk I am). I usually just ask them about what they like to do, hobbies, languages they speak, yada yada and ask questions as I go. In terms of the types of flirting that I do, maybe some subtle touching, some smizing/smiling that type of thing. Generally try to keep things rated PG-13. At the end of the night, these guys always get the impression that they can take me home...which is not the case! Do you think it's because that is just the scene? or do I seem really easy?
Lol, it's interesting that you can even strike a conversation at clubs considering how loud it is lol. But yea, many dudes equate girl talking = down for some action.
clubs and the clubbing scene isn't really the kind of thing where people meet for meaningful relationships. clubs are more for a bit of fun rather than anything serious. some people hook up, my friend met his wife clubbing but he didn't really flirt or hook up with her the first time, but it's rare for that type of thing to ever happen. and for a guy to have a girl go up to them and flirt, especially with touching, well it kinda means you're up for something. if like you say, that's not what you're up for.... well maybe you need to look at why you're going clubbing and what you're doing when you're there.
lol...what ABOVE said....as in all the comments above.....explains pretty much it. http://ca.askmen.com/dating/heidi/50_dating_girl.html lol, paragraph one of "what are your chances?"
Lmao at the stats. So according to that same article, unless you're part of the 3%, then you're fair game lol.
Clubs are for kids that live w/ their folks, drive their parent's g35, IS 350, and act like they are high rollers. That's how it is, and these guys act like they are big shots, but they're not. But that's just how the scene is. As a girl, you should have your persistence and character. Girls today are a bit easier than before, and girls always down play their hand. The guy wants to mate, and that's a fact. It's up to you.
Lmao I don't know how he did it, but he managed to pretty much insult a shit load of people in two lines.
Look like you doesn't have a goodtime when you was in your prime time. Off topic : i dont think any parent would buy G35 or Is 350.. lol Maybe a Corolla etc. lol
Although most guys would think there would be 'part 2' in the night from a nice conversation with a lady, it very rarely develops into a one-night-stand UNLESS something really really unusual happens! I wouldn't expect anything, should a lady being a bit flirty or a bit more talkative as anything else than being a little friendly. Really depends on who you bump into, and how you come across. The man might think something could be ON if you get OVER friendly, so do please be careful... All guys react differently to flirts...some are on the eager to 'pull' once there is the slightest hints of friendliness. Some guys are more conservative and laidback, whilst showing some interest, would let things develop slowly (despite the flirts). And the types are not dependant on confidence issues either. Some people think men who'd go in for "the kill the first time" has some form of an ego boosting confidence. And conservative guys are whimps. I tend to disagree. There are some conservative men who are confident enough to let the lady pursue it, and yet showing enough interests for her to continue her pursuits. To me these are signs of real self-confidence of a man - one that women would find even more attractive than say a guy walking up to her for a quick pull in a bar just because she showed a little flirtiness! So yes, to answer the question...the flirts could be sending the wrong signals to some men, but not all if they are just friendly interactions. If you find you are over friendly because all men would request for some 'actions afterwards', then perhaps tone down those interaction slightly. Either way you seem to know what you are doing and wants..so if all you are after is some form of friendly attention then adjust accordingly. The setting is also a BIG BIG factor as you know. Good luck and have fun!
aren't there other places besides clubs n bars to meet nice guys n gals? well you shouldn't let it bother you.. if the guy doesn't act right then just move on talk to the next guy..
