Am wondering

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by brisinger, Oct 7, 2010.

  1. brisinger

    brisinger New Member

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    We have been in a relationship for about a year now, and yet he still hasn't brought me to meet his family. He has met mine (though I think he would try to delay if he could). His family knows about us.
    What I don't understand is why? Shouldn't we be happy to introduce our significant other to people who are close to us when we are in a relationship?
     
  2. Flames

    Flames Out of Date User

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    Depends on how old you guys are and a year and you're meeting the parents, thats a bit of a rush rush
     
  3. Keisuke

    Keisuke Member

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    maybe he thinks his family will embarrass him or he does not like them lol
     
  4. KnockOut86

    KnockOut86 New Member

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    Give him more trust and when he feels it is time then he will introduce you gladly.
     
  5. missinglife

    missinglife Member

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    Just ask him why he hasn't introduce you to his parents. It is not really a big deal if you ask.
    But if I have to guess, it is either he's embarrassed about his parents (his parents have ill manner) or he's not that into you.
     
  6. kevin

    kevin RAWR!

    1 year is a pretty long time. Just wait or ask him politely.
     
  7. bbgirlsum

    bbgirlsum Well-Known Member

    ^ Agreed with Kevin

    Have you asked him? Not just about introducing yourself to his family but his feelings? I mean for the whole year has he even mentioned them, if so good way or bad way?

    At the end of the day if you like him that much you shouldn't rush him even after a year, some people do get very uncomfortable or very insecure about letting people meeting people who they love or are very important to them.