Amazingly True??? Assholes VS. Nice Guys

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mint_T, Mar 24, 2006.

  1. mint_T

    mint_T Well-Known Member

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    Hrmm...i Guess there is some truth in what he says, except for the part that says 'nice guys are EVERYWHERE'...hmm, i don know, maybe they are, but I just failed to notice? lol in that case I'm just like the 'girls' he's describing in his passage -what?
     
  2. shy

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    Woah, talk about being disgruntled! That was a rather long speech (that I didn't bother finish reading)...*laff*

    It's nobody's fault but the 'nice guy's' that he didn't get the girl. He probably wasn't proactive enough in pursuing the girl, and then this so called 'nice guy' goes and blames the girl (and the 'asshole') for his failed attempts? *laff* Perhaps the problem lies within the nice guy for his choice of girls...
     
  3. sitorbewwi

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    lifetime confessions =o =o ..jkjk but its got its true points, but i still havn't met any "nice guy who's there all the time" yet ._. they seem like an endangered species to me o.o
     
  4. wguan_86

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    You know what... an asshole doesn't turn good. they become more mature.....making them wanna settle down. Infact i have a friend who's been dating his present gf f 7 consecutive years. At the beginning when they started, he got caught my his gf's sister for cheating with someone else in public. After that he slowly became so call "good". Now, he practicalli lives at her place, bought her plane ticket to HK and let her drives his car (with him in it...lol).

    I just wanna comment on the fact that girls and guys are no different..they just have to get into the phase of life. Infact there's guy players and girl players...And since equalit is a big thing with us right now.. there's becomign more and more feminist "playas"
     
  5. qpower

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    Nice Guys are everywhere, just to those they know.

    not all guys are thinking to cheat or hurt others.
     
  6. shy

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    I haven't really dated any nice guys, mostly because nice guys don't usually go for a girl like me...most of the guys that I've dated are jerks, and I probably say that now because I'm no longer dating them, *laff* but not all of them have treated me like crap.

    I have a friend who is the ULTIMATE nice guy. He does everything for the girl and basically smothers her with his 'love.' In turn, it drives the girl away because she can't handle him being in her face all the time. But thats not before he becomes a floormat & gets stepped all over by the girl...
     
  7. AVANT

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    Curious as to why you think that. Be honest, I won't hurt you. -lol Lots of nice desperate guys out there ;) haha.

    Another example of nice guys finishing last. BTW, that nice guy's a tard.

    -noclue
    Speak for yourself, I look to punch someone in the face, knee them in the groins, then kick them while they are on the ground every chance I get. -lol

    Of course not all guys are looking to cheat or hurt others, in fact, overwhelming majority. Doesn't change the fact that you see more "jerks" with babes than nice guys. However, the awesome guys that "get it", are the big winners -clapclap
     
  8. goodguy vs. badguy... I think it's better to be a dick. because dicks never get cancer. Pple like Lance Armstrong get cancer, but your boss can walk through chernobyl naked and not get cancer... -lol.
     
  9. Our

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    I think there can be some truth to that..
     
  10. shy

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    Perhaps it's because I'm not a nice girl to being with...*laff* 'Lots of nice desperate guys out there'...are you referring to yourself as one of those guys? :p
     
  11. AVANT

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    Ha! No, if I had the SLIGHTEST interest in you, I'd have to crawl on my knees and be your doormat like those nice guys would right? LOL.

    1) No thx.
    2) In your dreams.
    3) you know you want me.
     
  12. shy

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    *laff* Okay, babe...you keep telling yourself that...;) hahah
     
  13. Felix

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    hahaha that guy is funny. what's so great about assholes anyway? I notice that a lot of girls tend to go for the 'bad boys' (like 'shy' lol).....do they have some type of special appeal?
     
  14. shy

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    I like bad boys because they're usually more adventurous. Most nice guys I know are pretty boring as far as dating and planning excursions, but I'm sure there are some nice guys out there who aren't so boring as the ones I've met. Then again, it is not my personal preference to go for the stereotypical 'nice guy' because like I said earlier, I am not a nice girl to begin with. *shrug* Oh well...-cool
     
  15. that's why I always it's always better to a badass -cool than a jackass...
     
  16. mint_T

    mint_T Well-Known Member

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    ahahaha aren't they the same thing? lol
     
  17. hmm lets see here.. a coolass?? -lol. nah i doubt they're the same, you can't necessarily be a badass if your a jackass.
     
  18. AVANT

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    Biggest difference between a badass and a jackass.

    People don't hate the badass.
     
  19. Thisdamngood

    Thisdamngood Well-Known Member

    Its hard for me to be a jackass. I think i am just 2 nice. I don't really care about "NIce guys finish last". Its just a saying. It makes my day just from helping people or be nice to them, to a certain extend.
     
  20. AVANT

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    So if you're telling me... even if you were smarter, looks better, more financially secure, had healthier habits, and super nice compared to the guy next to you... you wouldn't be the least bit upset that the guy next to you walks home with the girl?

    If you think this is some extreme case... think again, it happens everyday. I witness those poor saps at bars, clubs and parties way too often.

    Once again, not saying nice is a bad thing. Hell, I think I'm a nice guy -innocent ... sometimes -devil But being too nice really is a wussy attitude that usually gets you no where fast.
     
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