I seen many men and women always afraid of their lover and listen to their order and are you one of them. I'm not because I never even started a relationship yet.
I think it might be more of "are you afraid that your lover would leave you so you listen to their order". Either way, it should be a no. You should never be afraid of your lover.
i guess if its a kinky relationship and some role playing that fearing ur lover would be a good thing..hahah
nuup .. i'm not afraid of my boyfriend ~ hahaha .. i think he's more afraid of me coz i hit ! mwahahahaahahha~ .. buut don't all girls hit their guys ?! LOL~
i doubt that if you are scared of him/her there is a point together unless u think being afraid is a thrill for you then go ahead