Are you shallow?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by wondergirl, May 31, 2006.

  1. wondergirl

    wondergirl Well-Known Member

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    Do you think that you are shallow when it comes to choosing a bf/gf?

    Do you go for personality or physical attraction?

    I believe I'm shallow, but not to the extreme... like, if a guy had the perfect personality but isn't very attractive looking, I think I'll still go out with him.
     
  2. dauphu

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    what is shallow?
    sure it depends on the personality if u like someone or not...u can't love/hate anybody cuz of his visible appearance.. do beautiful human beings never go out with not attractive looking humans? don't be that material, guys!

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  3. shy

    shy Well-Known Member

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    I believe that everybody is shallow to some extent...

    That said, I would choose physical attraction.

    If some busted guy wanted to get with you, you probably wouldn't even give him a second look to know what his personality is like.
     
  4. whatdoido

    whatdoido Well-Known Member

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    i guess if the girl is 20stone/280lbs then i guess i would find it diifcult to be attracted even if she had nice personality, but a personality is most important... but a good personality doesnt mean u connect.. i think if u connect and even if she aint the prettiest girl in the class, then i'd still get together
     
  5. suijei

    suijei Well-Known Member

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    I don't think I'm that shallow since I'm not really attracted to the typical "hunk". Personality is all the way for me, but don't think i'd approach a butt-ugly guy wanting to get to know his personality.
     
  6. Knoctur_nal

    Knoctur_nal |Force 10 from Navarone|

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    aren't we all a bit shallow inside..
     
  7. yea just a bit sometimes... but usually when I forget to eat breakfast...
     
  8. rdm

    rdm Well-Known Member

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    i reckon that statement shows ur not too shallow.

    i rkn shallow is when you go for someone who is hot, regardless of personality.
    ie. a girl who packs on heaps of foundation (like their mother grabs the head and pushes the daughter's face into a tray of plain flour) and only accepts certain types of ppl for friends.
     
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  9. lawltank

    lawltank Well-Known Member

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    Everyone is shallow. To a point that is. No matter how much you say about you like personality more than looks, your just lying to yourself. Or am I just referring to us guys?
     
  10. mikeyh

    mikeyh Well-Known Member

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    yes of course..
     
  11. rideondiss

    rideondiss Well-Known Member

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    Look come first....Then you bang it...and then personality come....that's how it started with me..
     
  12. suijei

    suijei Well-Known Member

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    That's so...DEEP