So yeh, its been a while since my first girlfriend, and a while since i liked anybody... ever since freshmen year in college, ive been busy with school work, doing martal arts and hitting the gym a lot. Therefore i have no time to even think about girls...pathetic yes... i know however, recently ive started talking to this girl whom i knew since elementary. She went to the same elementary, middle and high school as i did. I mean we've talked since high school but it was only...did you see this TVB series etc...i mean we didnt even get to knew each other...it was always about borrowing my stuff so recently like 2-3 weeks ago ive asked to out to dinner and we've talked a lot of stuff...even then i dont think i liked her yet...interested yes... then we went to this water park together with a bunch of my friends and there was one ride that she wanted to go on but was scared so i offered to help her, and we just held hand for like a good minute or two... i felt something special after the trip ive saw her for the 2nd straight day and we just talked a lot and a lot... the thing is, i dont know what to do or how to keep going...girls guys? ideas? i mean im into long relationship and not those shitty short term fast relationships...so i want to know her as much as i can first...but a friend of mine thinks that if i drag it too long she might just think of me as just a friend and nothing more...
ok back to topic >< thanks for the first comment and the 2nd comment we'll discuss in sports section =P
walk up to her and: Give her a big hug unexpectedly and say "I love you very much since elementary school ... pause ... I do not want to let go of you.................."
or.. just keep going out to dinner and to places....... few months later, tell her to meet in a special place and lights on. I WUB YOU!!!!!!!!
^ very funny .. but who know .. it may just work .. some gals are crazy for this type of action .. lol I think what's truly holding you back is that you aren't sure you're interested in her yet. You felt something but certainly not strong enough to react. From my experience, I usually fell for the gal and made the move there. From there, we got to know one another. You already know this gal since elementary school so I've gathered that you and her share a lot of memories together. If there were spark flying, I am sure you've made the move. Believe it or not, when you really like someone, you don't need any technique or whatsoever to ask him/her out. The sudden urge to ask that person to stay or whatever will naturally come out from your mouth. Not to mention, this ain't your first time so yeah .. get things straightened out first. Your friendship with her is on the line too. If things go wrong or whatever, you will lose a valuable friendship at the end.
take about 2-3 weeks to get to know her and to gauge her interest in you(if any).... and then make your decision based on the feedback she gives you(body language...does she call you? or is it you thats always looking for her)... like your friend said... dont take too long.
i wish, we dont share enough memories together...i mean yeh ive known her since elementary school through high school...but we've never actually chilled, talked, or w/e til like jr year of college...sad yes, but idk...it seems like im starting to like her even more each day i see her... this may be weird but i feel very comfortable talking to my cousins for help than other female friends of mine...my cousin told me to wait it out for another few weeks then go up to her and ask her indirectly if theres gonna be a chance between us...what do you think?
i was watching real world...make a note and ask 'do you like me" then have a yes and no box for her to check hahhahaahahahahahhh and how many champions does celtics hold? 17 exactly what i thought.
I think you forgot the Axe. Hypothetical scenario #n: Ask her about advice for friend A about his situation with friend B that's in virtually the same circumstance as yourself. Then stare. -fear
