i hate being ignored to the point i am seen as invisible. id rather the person actually tell me whats wrong than not answering my questions. its so annoying. the silent treatment sucks! do u hate it when this happens?"
lol it can be childish but it can save ur butt, it gives them more time to think, but it can ruin a relationship, so i suggest u get ur ass and apologize ti them, or ignore them for rest of life
You should think about what caused this to happen in the first place, you can always return the favour
it does suc k, i know. Make up for it, e.g. dinner, or cook dinner your self and treat her/him. Pretty sure, they will forgive you.
oow.. i know someone which did dit.. she gave me that for 3 months =.= and finally answered and pretended noithing happened and came with excuses.. sigh :( i hate liars tbh :(
well, sometimes i give silent treatment because I want them to figure out what they did wrong on their own. Sometimes even if you tell them yourselves they wont learn or realise what is wrong with what they did, so let them figure it out themselves and learn not to do it again unless they want the silent treatment again. x
girls... you never will understand them.. you only lose friendships with it.. and most of the time they use the silent treatment is cause they are siew hai...
T_T Kit your calling me siew hei ah? silent treatment is good sometimes, rather that than blow up in the persons face and yelling about it, which could end up spiraling to a whole new level and dragging up other random stuff that doesnt even relate to why the silent treatment was given in the first place
alot of relationship/friendships is destroyed cause the communication is bad between the persons, and most of the time its the female which gives the silent treatment. and yes sandra if you gives silent treatment alot without telling what you actully want or why.. then you are a bit childish and not really fair to the other, not everyone knows whats in your mind!
haha you make it out like i give the silent treatment on a regular basis lol. it's only necessary in certain situations, I'm not one to always keep things bottled up, it's unhealthy lol.
regular base is even worse since that even more confuse your friend or partner, since you never do it regular he will be confused like hell lolz!
Don't let the person know it bothers you. It's all a manipulation technique to get the other person in an inferior position. So you have to play the game and not give in to it. Eventually the person will talk; it'll probably be a fight, but communication is more healthy than silence, even if the fight devolves into past fights (which it always does, doesn't it?)
Yah same with me!! dont have chance to talk cause they always talking lol and end up saying wat i was about to say
