Believing in Luck to win your love or not?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by aniking_7, May 24, 2007.

  1. aniking_7

    aniking_7 Well-Known Member

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    Most people would always try to hold some kind of charm when come to love and health so will you do it or you don't believe in superstition. >.<
     
  2. Aya-chan

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    it's more about timing, but in terms of the people you meet, yeah I would say it is luck, because you don't really have control over the type of people you met or gel with.
     
  3. aniking_7

    aniking_7 Well-Known Member

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    But

    There some people never believe in luck they instead believe in their will and intelligence to make their love come true but I believe in luck even if it's exist or not.
     
  4. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Well, if those charms can give one confidence in the potential relationship, it does have an impact because insecurity is really unattractive... so is lack of confidence = unattractive.
     
  5. some people believe in faith and destiny for their love. would that be considered luck?
     
  6. Aya-chan

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    well destiney itself is pretty random. But I think it would be luck in a way, but only so far as you're willing to make use of the opportunity presented to you.
     
  7. ab289

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    hmm .. destiny ... makes me think of that movie,"Serendipity".
     
  8. chickenutbread

    chickenutbread Well-Known Member

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    nope, i'm sure i'll meet the most perfect guy for me sometime in the future. without charms. or believing in superstition.
     
  9. xixi

    xixi Well-Known Member

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    you should believe in yourself that you will win your love...not luck...=)
     
  10. 無得頂

    無得頂 Well-Known Member

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    I don't really believe in luck. I just think they are more like coincidences. Can't really rely on it.
     
  11. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Dont think luck plays a part at all in relationship. Its all about the "feel" and how you work at it.
     
  12. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Luck.... Hmm let's see.

    Logically, I do believe in a little luck sometimes.

    Like, for example, the perfect timing. You might ask a girl that you fancy out and she's in a good mood. But when you ask a girl out and she's in a bad mood, she might reject you. And thus, lost a chance at getting to know u better and a chance for the 'friendship' to develope. That's just an example, but there are many more.

    Another example is when you chance upon that someone when you got stuck in a lift. Ordinarily, you would not have started talkin to her. But, being stuck in the lift; you started a convo with her and realized she's someone interesting that you'd like to get to know.

    Basically, I think a good timing has something to do with luck too.

     
  13. brown_bear

    brown_bear ☆‧° ☆﹒﹒‧ ☆ ﹒﹒‧☆‧° ☆

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    i believe in 'yuen fun' (fate) which is kind of luck i guess so yeh i think luck wins love.....but then again i also believe in you got to win it her/him as well and put effort in.....do you know what i mean....
     
  14. waikitfire

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    haih ... luck do play a big part of it... all depents on enviroment sometimes
    but friend's play a big part of it.
     
  15. wats_blue

    wats_blue Well-Known Member

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    i don't really believe in superstition, but it doesnt do you any harm in believing in some charm that may increase your chance in finding love or whatever...believing in some charm just increases your confidence and THAT is what makes you feel that you have become more lucky
     
  16. PhY pHy

    PhY pHy Well-Known Member

    I belive in it...its not like it can kill u...well..if ur not to..into it...
     
  17. AVANT

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    People without the confidence to meet people are the ones that wishes things were based on luck or some other superstition. Same with health, you take of your body, your body is more likely to take care of you.

    Don't believe it's luck. If you meet a someone at the mall, it's because you CHOSE to go to the mall, meeting the girl was merely an outcome. Timing can be created. You can time yourself to head to a bookstore, etc (a cool place to meet intelligent ppl btw).
     
  18. PhY pHy

    PhY pHy Well-Known Member

    I know that in HK they have a rock called
    the *yan yuen sek* and iv went ther and
    made a wish...lol...it hasnt come true yet...
    but i belive it will when the time comes...
     
  19. don

    don ello

    i don't believe in those yan yuen sek but i do think fate is part of it...
     
  20. PhY pHy

    PhY pHy Well-Known Member

    omg...were talking about the...omg...nevermind