Best friend? >:/

i just need to get this off my chest tonight or else I'll never let it go.

So tonight i was babysitting a couple of kids from 5pm to about 10 pm. After i put the kids to bed my friend calls me and asks if i wanna hang out at his place with some other people, including my best friend...(he wanted to ask me to dinner, but realized i was already gone at 5)
so i'm like "ya sure, after i'm done here i'll come right over" so i don't get done till maybe 10:30 but i still go over to his house. But right when i arrive, i see my best friend leaving with another friend of ours. And she's one of those "good girl types" so i wasn't that surprised she was leaving at 10:45. But what did surprise me was that she would leave when all those guys were around (she's a MAD flirt when her parents aren't around). Even so, i figured she must have something to do tomorrow. or promised her parents she'd be home by 11.
Right after she zooms off, the guy who invited me told me why she really left so early.

She didn't want me and her in the same place at the same time... as in the friend who called me said that earlier he told everyone he wanted to invite me over [he would invite me regardless of what other people would say, he just wanted to announce it to them] and my best friend replies "NOO..." so i'm thinking "wtf..." but i hold it in cause he might relay it back to her. So the reason why she left was because she didn't want to freaking see me? Wth?

what's going on with her? She's never done this before. Is she getting sick of me? I'm i too boring now? Or was it just because she couldn't be the only female in the house of guys anymore? Sometimes i don't understand her logic. Gahh girls can be so hella complicated DX

I'm confused and a little hurt right now. :[

 

lol maybe she thought u would just cock block her all night and decided her work there was done

 

plausible but unlikely :[ she kinda has a bf anyways

 

I think most likely answer is that you did/said something which she didn't like and not happy with you. Maybe think back carefully on what you did/said before to find out what's bothering her.

 

Instead of wondering about it, why don't you go give your best friend a call...? Talk to her as usual. I am sure you can definitely sense it if there's something different with her? Tone of her voice, stuff that she says, etc.

If she's cold with you on the phone, then you can either ask her directly, or play dumb until she confronts you. If she's friendly with you and all, you could bring it up as a joke... Like "You know, so-and-so told me you left early coz you didn't want to see me... hahaha" and see how she responds.

 

i've seen this happen several times with my friends.. so just like what BR says, it's best to talk to your friend directly first. besides, is your guy friend trustworthy? (i'm not trying to say you should be totally suspicious of him) sometimes we hear things from other people but their version might be totally off from the truth?

 

the only way to get the answer is to talk with that "friend" maybe you did something that she hates you for?

 

let me know how it goes. I say its over but u can prove me wrong later. How well do you know her as a friend?

 

psh i think she just wanted to be the only girl, so she could have all the guys to herself. i have a friend that's always like that. but i guess it could be different for your friend. like people above me say, just ask her

 

But I don't see why the girl would tell the host that she doesn't want to see Xiah for that reason.

 

ya i'll probably just talk to her later.
i'm not flipping out about it, especially since i slept some of it off but it is bothering me. Especially since i haven't seen her in like, a month or so.

 

^A month? Did you guys keep in contact? Maybe she's touchy and pissed coz you didn't bother to call her or something...

 

ya she was in hawaii with her family, but i made sure i would call her. She even called me during her trip.

 

hmm......maybe she started getting a lot a attention but noticed when your around, spotlight is stolen from her....
or maybe yeh she prob pissed at ya for not talking much or something...
OR maybe she heard something about you negatively thats revolves around her...

 

How can you be hurt you have an awesome friend at least that's what I think.. The guy is an awesome friend not the girl lol..

 

haaha i love my friends
the girl and the guy
but even though the girl is more emotionally expressive, she's way more dependable and caring.
the guy is pretty flaky :/

 

girls are complicated sometimes. backtrack your thoughts and actions maybe you did something that made her angry

 

i think it is best to use a intermediary and ask them to find out what's wrong with your best friend. i dont think there is any use back tracking... you wont get any hard answers

 

either u ask her or get a friend to ask her whats up all u thinking right now is u just sitting around wondering ther eis really no point

 

yea i think u should talk to ur friend about it coz thats kinda wierd esp if shes supposed to be ur 'best friend' true? and yes it is likely that u did sth that made her angry,.