Bi sexual or not.

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by bloope, Dec 30, 2006.

  1. bloope

    bloope Member

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    Does it make you bi sexual when your really attracted to someone the same sex gender and has strong feelings for them, but not sure whether its love? But how about if your interested in the person the same gender but not wanting to have sex with them, but is willing to the opposite sex..
    I’m just confused..
     
  2. martinj

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    I would think it lies in the word itself, as bisexual, being sexually attracted to both genders...but I wouldn't worry too much as in what term you come as its nothing but a word.
     
  3. bloope

    bloope Member

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    hmm well your right it is just a word.. but i'm just abit confused thats all. ;/.
     
  4. martinj

    martinj Guest

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    Oh I can imagine that...sadly I have no personal experience at all so I don't know what you should do to make things clearer for yourself... all I can say is that I hope get sorted out for you ^^.
     
  5. bloope

    bloope Member

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    Well yeah i hope things do get sorted out for me sooner or later lol.. Well no one can really understand me so yeah.. Well thanks for your help Martinj.
     
  6. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    If you use the definition before, then I don;t think you are bi.

    U like the opposite sex

    see wat I underlined . U probably just want to be better friends.

    :D
     
  7. Sugar Water

    Sugar Water Member

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    do what feels right for you...

    go out and experiment...

    don't let slip the one oppurtunity for true love..
     
  8. sweetbery

    sweetbery Well-Known Member

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    yes but you don't have to have sex with them to like them right?? err i don't know.
     
  9. veeh

    veeh Active Member

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    bis are really brave i must say.
    i admire them in fact heh
     
  10. i think it is considered as bi-sexual but just more into the opposite sex...
     
  11. bloope

    bloope Member

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    mmk thx for your help
     
  12. AVANT

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    I'm no expert, I just know there are some that say there are no bisexual people out there. People are ultimately gay or straight. Some (much more girls than guys) get curious for a while and ultimately choose one path as they get older. Guys don't tend to have that middle ground.

    Personally I'd consider you to be straight, but am curious category.

    As for wondering if something is love, strong feelings based on physical attraction is only part of the recipe, by itself is called lust.
     
  13. bi-sexual or not does that really matter?? the important thing is u know who u wanna b with... ur attracted to someone from the same sex but u dun wanna b with that person then forget abt it :) find someone u wanna b with ;)
     
  14. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    hehe. I like some of buddies 2, but it is not like I wanna -censored em in the butt. Just hangin n be koolios.
     
  15. hmm i learned in university , in sociology, that everyone is bisexual to some point. it is just the ratio of homo/heterosexuality that differs... someone maybe heterosexual 90% and homosexual 10%..

    i think thats pure crap. but hey, my prof taught it!
     
  16. onelove

    onelove Well-Known Member

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    well being bi has its benefits. can get greedy, havin bf and gf`` =]
    but i rckn its normal for girls to be experimental? if ur a girl that is...
    if ur a guy, im not sure man...spend more time with that person and just...let it flow``?

    love`
    mon
     
  17. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    I do believe everyone is point in the sexual spectrum spanning from totally heterosexual and totally homosexual. Most of us are somewhere in the middle, thus we sometimes get kind of attracked to a person of the same gender, but in all likelihood we won't act on the attraction.
    I consider the fact that you are attracted to a person of the same gender more than a friend should bisexual.
    And really, to me bisexual is like, the standard. Everyone is bisexual, specially the ones who refuse to acknowledge it :p
     
  18. kenshi

    kenshi Well-Known Member

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    This is something I watch on the Jerry Springer show...

    I hope you work it out... your probably confused because you lack definition...

    You can't always act on things simply because you feel like it.

    The world would be a mess otherwise. (it already is, but don't contribute)
     
  19. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    funnyboy?
     
  20. bloope

    bloope Member

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    i'm am a girl btw ;p hmm well thank you for all of your opinions ;p well i guess that
    i'm just confussed ;./ well anyways..