Breaking Up To Test Feelings?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by stardust, Aug 9, 2006.

  1. stardust

    stardust Well-Known Member

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    Have you ever broken up with somebody, but didn't really mean it, and just wanted to test out their reaction?
     
  2. rideondiss

    rideondiss Well-Known Member

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    If you do that, that's mean you really like that person or even love them.
    Not me, don't want to test it might be for real.
     
  3. shy

    shy Well-Known Member

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    I hope the people who do this have heard of the story 'The Boy Who Cried Wolf.'

    Why break up if you're going to get back together shortly after you say it?? If the thought of ending a relationship comes to your mind, it means that you're not taking the relationship seriously enough. In the end, anything can be worked out, if you truly love a person...

    & Saying that you want to end the relationship just so that you can get the other person to care about you more is immature and hurtful.
     
  4. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    everything will haunt u bak in the end..karma...i know a few girls who test if their bf care for them and in the end they're the one who end up crying...its immature to lie to get something out of another person
     
  5. yes i have... when i was abt 15... my first bf... when i get fed up at fights i just say "let's break up!!!!" n wait for his call the next day haha...
     
  6. MLAM

    MLAM Well-Known Member

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    A Breakup is a break up I think, if you get back with them again it will never be the same I think.

    Happened with me and a ex g/f, things never felt right and in the end we both said it was best to split and go our own way.
     
  7. Dont say something that u dont mean :p
     
  8. fishyfishy

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    actually... ive dont it once to my first gf. a couple days later.... she was like apologizing for something i cant even remember and she was like holding on to me and im like dam.......... but it turns out i really did dump her cause i couldnt care less. we were kids. wtf do we know xP.
     
  9. Luuman

    Luuman Well-Known Member

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    Yeah I tried it, not a good feeling.
     
  10. The_Ugly_Fugly

    The_Ugly_Fugly Active Member

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    seriously if u like the person then why break up even if it is a test >_< i just cant see it as being right, if they didnt like you, they wouldnt be with you, if you had to resort to it, i rekon its more lack of trust in the relationship :(
     
  11. hahaha... yeah it's true... but sometimes when young couples r fighting the girl usually goes "lets's break up >_<" n slams the door n wait for the guy to call her the next day... then when he does the fight would b over n it's all sweet lovey dovey again... but as time goes by this don't work anymore...

    now if i say break up to the guy i really wanna break up...
     
  12. Hubjub

    Hubjub Well-Known Member

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    Tried it on my gf on our 6th month anniversary... it was painful... but eventually we broke up 3 months after...
     
  13. AgentAlpha

    AgentAlpha Well-Known Member

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    i dont do these things ...
    if i have to break up with someone i would do it with no regret
     
  14. Kooslee

    Kooslee Well-Known Member

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    I don't think that's right. It like you are playing with that person's feelings. Don't commit to do anything if you aren't sure. Cause that person will sure be real mad if he/she found out that it was just a test
     
  15. Knoctur_nal

    Knoctur_nal |Force 10 from Navarone|

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    prepare to face the consequences of such an action
     
  16. the worst thing that can happen is breaking up for real... no biggie :p
     
  17. Knoctur_nal

    Knoctur_nal |Force 10 from Navarone|

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    exactly..or is it..
     
  18. Hubjub

    Hubjub Well-Known Member

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    Just don't do it people! i lost my gf for doing this
     
  19. lol thas just shady... set up like a candy light dinner... like hey baby it's just not workin' out sorry... *other person starts crying*.... sike I was kiddin... ahahahah...

    theres obviously other ways to test how much the other person cares about you... playing around with breakin up is just bad..
     
  20. Peacemaker

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    yay that sucks, it´s hard enough to break up with someone
    but doing it for fun?
    hell i´d think my partner is not taking me serious if that were to happen.
    i think that would setback ur relationship for centuries lol
    i made the experience, when ever i thought of breaking up, it was only a matter of time until i did it -.-